"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All out attack?

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This super-hot babe, bar-tender in a local cofeeshop...I gave it a long shot on her, hang around a bit to see what's going on. Nothing much, no boyfriend, but she's got a lot of social life. Anyway, yesterday, after I finished my cofee, I took an empty cup to the bar, for sort of 'bye-bye" attention. Dear lord, she turned towards me and she gave me a WINK! I guess this means "All out attack" mode?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by rick6599
This super-hot babe, bar-tender in a local cofeeshop...I gave it a long shot on her, hang around a bit to see what's going on. Nothing much, no boyfriend, but she's got a lot of social life. Anyway, yesterday, after I finished my cofee, I took an empty cup to the bar, for sort of 'bye-bye" attention. Dear lord, she turned towards me and she gave me a WINK! I guess this means "All out attack" mode?
Yup. Full-on assault. Bust a chair over her head and take her in the back.

LOL don't be so dramatic about it. Next time you walk by the coffeeshop, stop in to say hi and get her number.
 

DJ Alejandro

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maybe she just had something in her eye. :D

just be casual and dont make a big deal out of everything. you can do it. just act like you've known her for a long time and be comfortable when talking to her. then get her number.

good luck.
 

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"Yup. Full-on assault. Bust a chair over her head and take her in the back."

Thanks, ***hole ;)

I just about fell off my chair laughing :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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