"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All My Friends Are Gay

Lost Cause

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... This has been bothering me for some time now.

Over the last few years a lot of my good friends have either gotten full-time jobs or have moved away. We used to go out all the time and be outgoing, pick up girls, hang out, whatever. But nowadays it seems like what friends I have left just want to sit at home and "chill", as one friends describes it. At 23 y/o you should be over "house parties" every weekend (with the same damn people). Now I do have a few girls that I roll with but I have been missing out on the guy aspect of socializing. I have no problem at all with talking to women but getting new guy friends seems to be a hard task. I would say that I have 2 or 3 guy friends that I can go out with frequently. The others are just boring, introverted, druggies with no social life.

This sucks... anyone feel me here?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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killerasp

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i just moved home from college and all my guy friends live hrs away from me. Although, many of my girl friends live within visiting distance, we hang out every week and it lets me keep my game strong. Although my relationship with these girls are set in stone, i can work new C&F stuff before i use them with new girls. Its hard at times. I cant get dumb drunk and do guy stuff (pick up girls, vomit everywere) but at the same time, it give me awesome social proof plus these girls have hot friends to work my new material on.
 

backbreaker

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dude, what do you want a freaking basketball team to take out with you?

I have 2 Friends... not that I can take to the club, just 2 friends in all. One of them I would consider taking to the club. Keyword, consider.

Make due with what you have.

HOwever I perfer to go out by myself anyways, because I am more likely to be the catch.

However, my friends are fun to hang around, and I do make sure that I get with them around 1 time a week if possible.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
find new friends who aren't all sucked up like those pansies
Gotta agree with this. :)

I know how you feel because every single one of my friends from highschool they all have 2-3 jobs and never do anything. The only thing they do is work and sit around listening to there little ugly dog face girlfriends problems all day on the phone when they are not working.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sw20racer

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I'm 23 too so I feel where you're coming from. The few friends that I have already have g/fs or are out of town for the summer or working way too much!
 
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