"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All My Friends Are Gay

Lost Cause

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... This has been bothering me for some time now.

Over the last few years a lot of my good friends have either gotten full-time jobs or have moved away. We used to go out all the time and be outgoing, pick up girls, hang out, whatever. But nowadays it seems like what friends I have left just want to sit at home and "chill", as one friends describes it. At 23 y/o you should be over "house parties" every weekend (with the same damn people). Now I do have a few girls that I roll with but I have been missing out on the guy aspect of socializing. I have no problem at all with talking to women but getting new guy friends seems to be a hard task. I would say that I have 2 or 3 guy friends that I can go out with frequently. The others are just boring, introverted, druggies with no social life.

This sucks... anyone feel me here?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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killerasp

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i just moved home from college and all my guy friends live hrs away from me. Although, many of my girl friends live within visiting distance, we hang out every week and it lets me keep my game strong. Although my relationship with these girls are set in stone, i can work new C&F stuff before i use them with new girls. Its hard at times. I cant get dumb drunk and do guy stuff (pick up girls, vomit everywere) but at the same time, it give me awesome social proof plus these girls have hot friends to work my new material on.
 

backbreaker

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dude, what do you want a freaking basketball team to take out with you?

I have 2 Friends... not that I can take to the club, just 2 friends in all. One of them I would consider taking to the club. Keyword, consider.

Make due with what you have.

HOwever I perfer to go out by myself anyways, because I am more likely to be the catch.

However, my friends are fun to hang around, and I do make sure that I get with them around 1 time a week if possible.
 

jay56

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
find new friends who aren't all sucked up like those pansies
Gotta agree with this. :)

I know how you feel because every single one of my friends from highschool they all have 2-3 jobs and never do anything. The only thing they do is work and sit around listening to there little ugly dog face girlfriends problems all day on the phone when they are not working.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sw20racer

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I'm 23 too so I feel where you're coming from. The few friends that I have already have g/fs or are out of town for the summer or working way too much!
 
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