Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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All kinds of questions!

kel

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Ive done a lot of thinking and observing lately. I've discovered mistakes i've made, and things i've done right, but now i have questions in great supply :)

a) when you're being a bit of a **** and funny as hell, so basically C+F, and a girl says "I reaallly...just dont know what to make of you!" Is that good or bad?

b) I'm on the train with my friend (a true DJ if ever there was one) and I get a call from a mutual friend i'm sort of pulling. She calls me a few times, and then i put my phone on silent and miss her call. She calls my friend (to tell us the ballgame score) and he asks her why she keeps calling ME not HIM. Her reply was that I "kept calling her" or something like that, which we thought was really odd. I've dialed her number maybe twice in my life. and txt'ed her a few times. Was she just trying to stay in good standing with him too and making up an excuse, or does she view me as needy and such?

c) Im the kind of person that really doesn't like random hooking up. I'm really an LTR kinda guy, so that's my "goal" these days. My main trouble is finding girls i really connect with. Is there anything at all I can do about that? Its frustrating that I cant find girls I consider LTR material...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jakeyboy

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a) she's finding it queer you suddenly pull this C and F on her.. not too sure though. might be good, you're maintaining that mysterious air about you.. the less she knows the better, if she cant make you out, then its a good sign

b)excuse. haha. talking pure bull that she is.

c)Pook's Anti Dump Machine... it filters women out for LTR material for YOU. so the girl is suited to YOUR needs. im using it too. pretty good, at least at the end of it all, you get the girl who is marriage material for you. and she likes you for you alone, nothing else. strictly for LTR material only. you can find it in the DJ bible... near the bottom. all the best mate
 

kel

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In the first instance, i had JUST met the girl, so it was synchronous with my other behaviour. I would be constantly busting her balls, but there was a detectable niceness about me anyway. I made her 'earn' my liking her. When she said something i agreed with, I'd say like "Okay...you're not so bad after all. ya know what? you're all right."
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biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by kel
In the first instance, i had JUST met the girl, so it was synchronous with my other behaviour. I would be constantly busting her balls, but there was a detectable niceness about me anyway. I made her 'earn' my liking her. When she said something i agreed with, I'd say like "Okay...you're not so bad after all. ya know what? you're all right."
:)
lol, nice work bro, keep it up.
 
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