"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pierce Manhammer

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A lot of the time their actions don't match their words, plenty of girls say they don't want ONS but we all know how that turns out.
hah, back when I was going kind of nuts I’d focus on chicks that said that outright, it was always a guaranteed high success rate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Solomon

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Absolutely not. That only benefits the female mating strategy.

Men, the bottom line is any girl that still has a soul and is truly interested in you will try to lock you down. All you can do is stall, delay, and negotiate. Accept that they will fall off as plates when you don’t give them that exclusivity.
Sir it's 2022, not 2012 anymore guess what there are women that only want to hook up *GULP*
the reason you're having these issues is cause you putting relationship vibes
are you gonna miss out on a lot of girls? yes but there are a lot of women out there just looking for casual fun
 

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Women in non-exclusive relationships have a shelf life of about 3-4 months. Just how it is. There really isn't much advice to give on it. If you are unwilling to give them exclusivity after that amount of time they assume you aren't serious about them and move on to someone else.

And there isn't anything wrong with that. They simply have different goals in terms of relationships and have given you all the time they are willing to give you to see if you want the same thing.

It's why you always keep women in the pipeline, you never know when a plate will break and you will need to replace her
 

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Don’t lead them on, you do you and let them roll off then find new plates.

Wasting girls time and lying to them is morally wrong. Some men have the time and energy to lie, some men don’t. I personally find that behaviour beyond beta, lying to women to bang them or keep them around while wasting their time because you lack the means to find another women. Sickening.

They will all want to lock you down if you’re a man worth a damn. Just don’t get any pregnant. Lots of men in this forum impregnated hoes, have complicated lives and dish out subpar advice to us smart men.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don’t lead them on, you do you and let them roll off then find new plates.

Wasting girls time and lying to them is morally wrong. Some men have the time and energy to lie, some men don’t. I personally find that behaviour beyond beta, lying to women to bang them or keep them around while wasting their time because you lack the means to find another women. Sickening.
We preach here that relationships don't last, but rarely apply it to plates. Just enjoy the time and move on.
 

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So you had sex with them ? How long have you been dating them. I would say stop being romantic ( do not even touch them ) immediately and be honest with your intentions. These girls are not going to be sex buddies and you are targeting wrong girls. Probably using some manipulation tactics knowing or unknowing to sleep with them.

If you are using some apps to get these girls then as someone said let her know you are into relationships. You can directly or indirectly say you have slept with x amount of girls but have not found the one or something like that. Do not have to be complete jerk but you must show your sexual, playboy intent. You can still get laid but own yourself that you are a cool guy who is not needy and has abundance. No bf vibes or manipulation is needed. I think for casual sex night game is probably best, so find venues in your area and see how it goes. I may be wrong but girls who like to party a lot, drink, smoke have tattoos, piercing are probably ideal target for you ( I know many such girl are trash lol )
 
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