First off, I know that some of this stuff has probably been talked about to death but PLEASE DON'T CLOSE THIS TOPIC.
I will sort my problems and the like by numbers
1) I'm tall and skinny and thus fat girls like me all the time. The obvious response would be to workout, but being muscular makes me look even nerdier (think Jeff Goldblum).
2) Kind of goes along with the first one but fat girls end up liking me/flirting with me/having a crush on me ALL THE TIME. I ignore them but it still happens. And this also makes me not want to be outgoing because every time that I am outgoing a fat girl ends up liking me. Therefore I'm an introvert because if I am outoing a fat girl will like me which ends up in me being depressed.
3) I'm constantly in a beta male position. Whether it's a roommate or a friend who's always getting laid or I don't have a girl at the most opportune times. And rather than inspiring me it gets me depressed.
4) Yes, I'm guilty of one-itis. There's always this one girl that I end up thinking about constantly but this one doesn't always prevent me from being outgoing.
5) I go to bars, clubs and parties. I attempt to be social and approach girls and I get no results.
6) I've gone to a very populated college for some time now but still have not had luck.
I'm sure there's more which I might add later. Thanks ahead for any advice.
I will sort my problems and the like by numbers
1) I'm tall and skinny and thus fat girls like me all the time. The obvious response would be to workout, but being muscular makes me look even nerdier (think Jeff Goldblum).
2) Kind of goes along with the first one but fat girls end up liking me/flirting with me/having a crush on me ALL THE TIME. I ignore them but it still happens. And this also makes me not want to be outgoing because every time that I am outgoing a fat girl ends up liking me. Therefore I'm an introvert because if I am outoing a fat girl will like me which ends up in me being depressed.
3) I'm constantly in a beta male position. Whether it's a roommate or a friend who's always getting laid or I don't have a girl at the most opportune times. And rather than inspiring me it gets me depressed.
4) Yes, I'm guilty of one-itis. There's always this one girl that I end up thinking about constantly but this one doesn't always prevent me from being outgoing.
5) I go to bars, clubs and parties. I attempt to be social and approach girls and I get no results.
6) I've gone to a very populated college for some time now but still have not had luck.
I'm sure there's more which I might add later. Thanks ahead for any advice.
