"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alizee - French hottie

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX

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She's an incredible specimen of womanhood thats for damn sure Luthor.
 

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yeah not bad. And the French accent is one of the real exotic-seeming ones, imo
 

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Until I discovered the Former Soviet Union I was into French music. Alizee was pretty cool back in the day (6 years ago). She is trying to make a comeback. She looks and sounds terrible these days.

Married and has a kid already. The new album is a joke. Nobody is buying the thing. She began as a lolita type character. She is totally the result of the freak that is Mylene Farmer. Mylene Farmer might be a freak of a woman, but she definitely has some skills. The first two Alizee albums were great. This last one is an absolute bomb though. I can't stand to even listen to it. So...If you wanna buy Alizee go with the first two. Get the int'l. version of the second album if you get the second album at all. It has more songs on it (English versions as well). Probably best to start with the first album though. BTW, she is not French. She is from Corsica. That is a huge difference to those people.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x65k9dQScT8
A great Mylene song. Video is from Brussels. This song was HUGE about 6 years ago. I like the trance mix the best.


ALIZEE Vids
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDwKPGUIVME
The one that kicked things off. "Moi-Lolita"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZlgNj-rIxw&feature=related
Much better than Madonna.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WLepyBDiyw
I always liked this one.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRnVfhRrtig
Probably the most artsy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1EexkO8reUA&feature=related
I can remember listening to this song for hours. Wow, that was a long time ago.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tg2cQ96tveA&feature=related
Lorie! This was her big French rival. Think Debbie Gibson vs. Tiffany. Only thing is there were some fights back in the day between the two fan groups. At one point some Alizee fans were ambushed by Lorie fans before a concert.
 

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Cute brunettes get my m-m-m-m-m-m-motor runnin'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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