She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You just helped further prove my point as to why it would be dumb to do it...Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
well i never said do it every day. only on occasion because getting twacked out is a lot of fun but if you do it too much it turns into a cycle because you smoke or snort it and then you stay up for a few hours depending and then you start coming down and the reason you come down and feel ****ty is because your brain needs more to feel like it was and if you have some more you will do it...lest you know, 3-4 days have gone by and your ass is still up. Trust me, I've been through the negative side of meth.
I havent done it in like 3 months, last time I stayed up for 28 days and trust me its in-f*cking-sane!! My vision was waving and flopping, I looked like just a big slab of skin with no definition, my eyes were blood shot to the max, I was constantly hallucinating and I didnt look very desirable to the ladies lol....
It sure increases your alcohol intake ability!
nah man ive been around that **** for some time now, and with a lot of will power ive been able to stay away from it. if im going to do some really bad **** like that i rather do some x. but thats not the point ive quit drugs altogether, except for alcohol which is the most fun, but ironically i feel that is affecting me the worst. ive cut down on the drinking anyways bc im training for boxing. it sucks tho bc just one night of no sleep and lots of drinking can ruin a whole week of hard training. thats all it takes, one day.Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Dude I think that you just need to chill, invite some ppl to get drunk with you and get laid every once in a while and you'll be ok.
Unless you have a busy schedule.
OH! And get spun out(meth)! Dude you'll be up longer partying and you won't get as drunk while being able to drink twice as much as you could when you weren't spun out. so go get 50 dollars and buy some tweak. NOW!
I'd recommend coke before meth...Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
well i never said do it every day. only on occasion because getting twacked out is a lot of fun but if you do it too much it turns into a cycle because you smoke or snort it and then you stay up for a few hours depending and then you start coming down and the reason you come down and feel ****ty is because your brain needs more to feel like it was and if you have some more you will do it...lest you know, 3-4 days have gone by and your ass is still up. Trust me, I've been through the negative side of meth.
I havent done it in like 3 months, last time I stayed up for 28 days and trust me its in-f*cking-sane!! My vision was waving and flopping, I looked like just a big slab of skin with no definition, my eyes were blood shot to the max, I was constantly hallucinating and I didnt look very desirable to the ladies lol....
It sure increases your alcohol intake ability!
Originally posted by undesputable
Im starting to worry about this....i look forward to getting drunk
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Of course he looks forward to getting drunk at a party. Just about everyone that goes to a party looks forward to it beforehand. That's not necessarily a sign of alcoholism.Originally posted by Aztec
Reflect on your statements.
I hardly see a response that really answered your concern.
Alcohol is highly possible to be a precursor to any addictive substance. It obviously shows when you said that you look forward to getting hammered.
It is probably funny now because you are young but WATCH IT!!! At least, you can identify that something is probably wrong in this picture.
A lot of people (ie college-age folks) use and abuse substances and let go of these habits when they get their own jobs, families etc. Meaning they outgrow this sh1t. Also, a lot of people get stuck. And when they get stuck, they are stuck for a loooong time (short time if they die soon).
Watch families get destroyed by alcoholism. Maybe spending multiple times in jail for DWI/DUI....maybe for vehicular manslaughter. Maybe spending your and/or taxpayers' dollars going in and out of detox/rehab. Maybe that's your thing or maybe not. You have those choices.
Some "experts" believe that some people are prone to this "disease" anyway and it could be hereditary. Don't believe in this complete BS because it isn't true. You can get out of this mess without any formal treatment or going to any "anonymous" groups. But I'm getting ahead of myself.
I can't tell you to stop because you may tend to do the opposite and start binging everyday, but just keep the consequences in mind (or the benefits of not being an alky or a druggie)
Originally posted by familyguyfan
You're completely wrong though that alcoholism cannot be hereditary. You won't necessarily only become an alcoholic if someone in your family before you has, but if that is the case, then you will be more prone to it. Native americans are perfect examples of alcoholism being hereditary.
And in his current situation of just getting drunk at parties with his friend, you're right, he doesn't need formal treatment to stop. But, a full-blown alcoholic does need formal treatment to stop.
Nope, you're still wrong there. While that is the case sometimes, it still can be genetics. It doesn't even have to be in your immediate family. Could be grandfather, aunt, uncle, whoever. Once again I bring up the Native American case.Originally posted by Aztec
Fruit doesn't fall far from the tree. This is because they see what their family members do, therefore they emulate them consciously or not. Monkey see, monkey do. Not because it's genetic. One has the choice to break the cycle.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i dont think that will ever happen... It has already happened in the past....didnt last long.alcohol will always be around.Originally posted by PRMoon
The only way all of society will be rid of alcholism would be to remove alchol all together. Maybe it'll happen, but it won't be in this lifetime.
You never really know. I mean society might some day combat the damages that we do to ourselves as humans, and one day be rid of all harmful entertainment drugs. It seems very unlikely now because of the way things are but certianly in a few hundred, few thousand years (If humans are still around) such a thing could be possible.Originally posted by undesputable
i dont think that will ever happen... It has already happened in the past....didnt last long.alcohol will always be around.
I hope to god I never live to see that day...Originally posted by PRMoon
I mean society might some day combat the damages that we do to ourselves as humans, and one day be rid of all harmful entertainment drugs.