"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AIM MSN or ICQ

How many IM buddies do you have?

  • 1-10

    Votes: 4 12.5%
  • 10-50

    Votes: 6 18.8%
  • 50-100

    Votes: 7 21.9%
  • 100-200

    Votes: 7 21.9%
  • > 200

    Votes: 8 25.0%

  • Total voters
    32

challice

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I was just wondering what IM program most of you use?

I know that MSN seems to be used more in Europe while AIM is used more in the U.S.

Also, those of you with an ungodly amount of buddies, do you chat to most of them/them chat to you or are alot of them just takin up space?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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undesputable

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i doubt people who have 100+ "buddies"talk to all of them on a regular basis. I remeber i used to have like 170 on AIM, but really at the most i would talk to only 35-40....so now i only have around that number
 

strams4ever

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Adding up Yahoo, AIM, and MSN.. over 250, only talk to about 35 though. When I lived in Germany everyone used MSN, now that I live in the US, its all about AIM.
 

silverwex

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i just got ICQ, if anyone wants to talk with me on it heres my no:

204952234
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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arutha

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I'm in Australia, I use msn.

Around 170 contacts, I talk to maybe 20 of them regularly and the others just occasionally when they're online.
 

comic_relief

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i talk to about ten to thirteen on a regular basis
 

Taviii

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I'm from Romania so I have Yahoo. I used to have about >100 but I saw no point in keeping all those people, but they still have my id so when they want to talk to me they can. I got about 40 now.

PS one of the 40 is the guy above :)
 

Tomatoes

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MSN. 102 buddies. Dont speak to all of them thow. Prob about 30 i speak too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MrS

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Taviii

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When will yahoo and msn join forces? I always hear about it but it still doesnt work.
 

Ace of Flames

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I have AIM and Yahoo, together they add up to about 20 people, but I only talk to like 5 regularly.

If anyone gets bored, hit me up on AIM. I'm probably just as bored. ^_^
 

Skilla_Staz

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undesputable said:
i doubt people who have 100+ "buddies"talk to all of them on a regular basis. I remeber i used to have like 170 on AIM, but really at the most i would talk to only 35-40....so now i only have around that number

I agree. Every few months or so I delete people off my buddylist that aren't either amazingly hot, or that I don't talk to. The number usually drops from anywhere between 200-300 all the way down to around 100 or even down to the 50's.


I get random people IMing me, we'll talk once or twice, and I'll forget about them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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