"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AIM MSN or ICQ

How many IM buddies do you have?

  • 1-10

    Votes: 4 12.5%
  • 10-50

    Votes: 6 18.8%
  • 50-100

    Votes: 7 21.9%
  • 100-200

    Votes: 7 21.9%
  • > 200

    Votes: 8 25.0%

  • Total voters
    32

challice

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I was just wondering what IM program most of you use?

I know that MSN seems to be used more in Europe while AIM is used more in the U.S.

Also, those of you with an ungodly amount of buddies, do you chat to most of them/them chat to you or are alot of them just takin up space?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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undesputable

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i doubt people who have 100+ "buddies"talk to all of them on a regular basis. I remeber i used to have like 170 on AIM, but really at the most i would talk to only 35-40....so now i only have around that number
 

strams4ever

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Adding up Yahoo, AIM, and MSN.. over 250, only talk to about 35 though. When I lived in Germany everyone used MSN, now that I live in the US, its all about AIM.
 

silverwex

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i just got ICQ, if anyone wants to talk with me on it heres my no:

204952234
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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arutha

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I'm in Australia, I use msn.

Around 170 contacts, I talk to maybe 20 of them regularly and the others just occasionally when they're online.
 

comic_relief

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i talk to about ten to thirteen on a regular basis
 

Taviii

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I'm from Romania so I have Yahoo. I used to have about >100 but I saw no point in keeping all those people, but they still have my id so when they want to talk to me they can. I got about 40 now.

PS one of the 40 is the guy above :)
 

Tomatoes

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MSN. 102 buddies. Dont speak to all of them thow. Prob about 30 i speak too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MrS

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Taviii

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When will yahoo and msn join forces? I always hear about it but it still doesnt work.
 

Ace of Flames

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I have AIM and Yahoo, together they add up to about 20 people, but I only talk to like 5 regularly.

If anyone gets bored, hit me up on AIM. I'm probably just as bored. ^_^
 

Skilla_Staz

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undesputable said:
i doubt people who have 100+ "buddies"talk to all of them on a regular basis. I remeber i used to have like 170 on AIM, but really at the most i would talk to only 35-40....so now i only have around that number

I agree. Every few months or so I delete people off my buddylist that aren't either amazingly hot, or that I don't talk to. The number usually drops from anywhere between 200-300 all the way down to around 100 or even down to the 50's.


I get random people IMing me, we'll talk once or twice, and I'll forget about them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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