"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AIM MSN or ICQ

How many IM buddies do you have?

  • 1-10

    Votes: 4 12.5%
  • 10-50

    Votes: 6 18.8%
  • 50-100

    Votes: 7 21.9%
  • 100-200

    Votes: 7 21.9%
  • > 200

    Votes: 8 25.0%

  • Total voters
    32

challice

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I was just wondering what IM program most of you use?

I know that MSN seems to be used more in Europe while AIM is used more in the U.S.

Also, those of you with an ungodly amount of buddies, do you chat to most of them/them chat to you or are alot of them just takin up space?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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undesputable

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i doubt people who have 100+ "buddies"talk to all of them on a regular basis. I remeber i used to have like 170 on AIM, but really at the most i would talk to only 35-40....so now i only have around that number
 

strams4ever

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Adding up Yahoo, AIM, and MSN.. over 250, only talk to about 35 though. When I lived in Germany everyone used MSN, now that I live in the US, its all about AIM.
 

silverwex

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i just got ICQ, if anyone wants to talk with me on it heres my no:

204952234
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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arutha

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I'm in Australia, I use msn.

Around 170 contacts, I talk to maybe 20 of them regularly and the others just occasionally when they're online.
 

comic_relief

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i talk to about ten to thirteen on a regular basis
 

Taviii

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I'm from Romania so I have Yahoo. I used to have about >100 but I saw no point in keeping all those people, but they still have my id so when they want to talk to me they can. I got about 40 now.

PS one of the 40 is the guy above :)
 

Tomatoes

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MSN. 102 buddies. Dont speak to all of them thow. Prob about 30 i speak too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MrS

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Taviii

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When will yahoo and msn join forces? I always hear about it but it still doesnt work.
 

Ace of Flames

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I have AIM and Yahoo, together they add up to about 20 people, but I only talk to like 5 regularly.

If anyone gets bored, hit me up on AIM. I'm probably just as bored. ^_^
 

Skilla_Staz

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undesputable said:
i doubt people who have 100+ "buddies"talk to all of them on a regular basis. I remeber i used to have like 170 on AIM, but really at the most i would talk to only 35-40....so now i only have around that number

I agree. Every few months or so I delete people off my buddylist that aren't either amazingly hot, or that I don't talk to. The number usually drops from anywhere between 200-300 all the way down to around 100 or even down to the 50's.


I get random people IMing me, we'll talk once or twice, and I'll forget about them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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