"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ahhhhh! Wtf

SikWitIt

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Heres the story, at my current job thers like 500 people working ther and we have our own personal email account.

So i come into work one day check my mail, and i see one that say's you have a secret admirer im like cool? So i have no idea who they are and they just keep sending me email's eventually they say they used to work with me and think im cute etc...

But never tell me ther name after i ask several times, so one day i just wrote tell me your name now, they did so i still have no clue who it is i ask my girlfriend who just happens to be my supervisor at work (dont ask) who they are and she say's that she doesnt remember anyone by that name.

So we talk about it for awhile and i tell her the things this person said and she all of a sudden starts laughing im like wtf? And guess what it's a ****ing guy man wtf i was like ahhh omg are you jokin.

So im still not convinced, i email the person and they say yes they are a guy holy hell man i knew i was cute but dam even guys are after me now thats sick cmon i dont fudge pack or ride down the hershey highway with guy's
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Docs

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And you can't TRACK this message (or get it Tracked, you should have someone there that can)?

And...this really should be in AE.
 

OfficeSpace

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Obviously your girlfriend knows who it is... SO no need to track this guy down since she knows. I would email this dude and tell him to **** off...
 

Caveman

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Enjoy that the fact that someone thinks you're cute and move on. So what if he's a guy?? You will not have to sleep with him...
It makes you seem like a loser that has never had a secret admirer before and will do anything to find out who it is.
You have a girl and other people think you're cute. Cool. What's for diner baby?
 

biker_gixxer

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You should of ignored the emails after several attempts to find out who it is... These types of silly games 'should' be beneath you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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