"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ahhhhh! Wtf

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Heres the story, at my current job thers like 500 people working ther and we have our own personal email account.

So i come into work one day check my mail, and i see one that say's you have a secret admirer im like cool? So i have no idea who they are and they just keep sending me email's eventually they say they used to work with me and think im cute etc...

But never tell me ther name after i ask several times, so one day i just wrote tell me your name now, they did so i still have no clue who it is i ask my girlfriend who just happens to be my supervisor at work (dont ask) who they are and she say's that she doesnt remember anyone by that name.

So we talk about it for awhile and i tell her the things this person said and she all of a sudden starts laughing im like wtf? And guess what it's a ****ing guy man wtf i was like ahhh omg are you jokin.

So im still not convinced, i email the person and they say yes they are a guy holy hell man i knew i was cute but dam even guys are after me now thats sick cmon i dont fudge pack or ride down the hershey highway with guy's
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And you can't TRACK this message (or get it Tracked, you should have someone there that can)?

And...this really should be in AE.
 
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OfficeSpace

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Obviously your girlfriend knows who it is... SO no need to track this guy down since she knows. I would email this dude and tell him to **** off...
 
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Enjoy that the fact that someone thinks you're cute and move on. So what if he's a guy?? You will not have to sleep with him...
It makes you seem like a loser that has never had a secret admirer before and will do anything to find out who it is.
You have a girl and other people think you're cute. Cool. What's for diner baby?
 
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You should of ignored the emails after several attempts to find out who it is... These types of silly games 'should' be beneath you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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