"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AHHH! dunno wat to do

dawg89

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i seriously need help with this. there are 2 girls one i i rilly like nd 1 dat had a nice bodny and somewhat of a face i want to go out with the 1st one but the other girl wants to give me head and practically **** her. these two are BEST friends so i know if i go with 1 i wont go wit the other. i dunt know which to pick. im lusting after the 1st girl so badly but im trying to conrol myself before i do something stupid
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Spoiled3289

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Obviously go with the first one. If theyre best friends and the 1st girl doesnt do anything with you then be like your best friend told me she'd do __________ (insert own words here) with me. Hopefully, that'll change her mind into doing stuff with you if she wont already.
 

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Pick which ever one does better in English class, 'cause you could use the help.
 

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lol

wow, i don't post much, but i'm going to give a big

LOL to that one, nice job blienk ;)

A-
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Spoiled3289
Obviously go with the first one. If theyre best friends and the 1st girl doesnt do anything with you then be like your best friend told me she'd do __________ (insert own words here) with me. Hopefully, that'll change her mind into doing stuff with you if she wont already.
For once i'm actually going to agree with spoiled.

Don't sacrifice your attraction because of sex. You'll be happier with the chick you wanted to begin with even if your not ****ing her right away.

I don't know how the female psyche but i've never heard about saying "Your friends a slut that would sleep with me, so you should too." And actually working.

Make her feel she should be doing stuff with you because it will benefit her and your relationship. Don't give her the impression you NEED sex, or else you give her power.

Thats my 2 cents.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jerky Boi

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I'd definitely go with the first one. You're attracted to her and there's a potential chance of getting more than just sex.
 

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i agree too, go with the first one. if her firend's a slut then she is too. birds of a feather fly together. if u can do one, then u can do the other. pick the one u wanna do more and dont take too long pickin. i made the mistake of not choosing which of 2 girls i wanted fast enough and they both ended up hating me :p.
 

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Yes the first one, it sounds like the second is desperate enough for you that if it doesnt work out with number 1# you could still hit it up with her.
 

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"Pick which ever one does better in English class, 'cause you could use the help."

LOL, damn thats funny as hell!!!! I always like remarks like this, cracks me up. lol

but seriously bro, using punctuation would help get your point across a little better.

about your little dilemma, i'd go with the first one, but still wouldn't give up hope with the 2nd one, just go straightforward with the 1st one, and talk with the 2nd one, if she offers, then tell her your seeing with so and so and if shes ok with it then damn you set it off perfectly if not then forget about it, shes the one that offered, you didnt ask
 
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