i seriously need help with this. there are 2 girls one i i rilly like nd 1 dat had a nice bodny and somewhat of a face i want to go out with the 1st one but the other girl wants to give me head and practically **** her. these two are BEST friends so i know if i go with 1 i wont go wit the other. i dunt know which to pick. im lusting after the 1st girl so badly but im trying to conrol myself before i do something stupid
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AHHH! dunno wat to do
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Spoiled3289
Don Juan
Obviously go with the first one. If theyre best friends and the 1st girl doesnt do anything with you then be like your best friend told me she'd do __________ (insert own words here) with me. Hopefully, that'll change her mind into doing stuff with you if she wont already.
For once i'm actually going to agree with spoiled.
Don't sacrifice your attraction because of sex. You'll be happier with the chick you wanted to begin with even if your not ****ing her right away.
I don't know how the female psyche but i've never heard about saying "Your friends a slut that would sleep with me, so you should too." And actually working.
Make her feel she should be doing stuff with you because it will benefit her and your relationship. Don't give her the impression you NEED sex, or else you give her power.
Thats my 2 cents.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i agree too, go with the first one. if her firend's a slut then she is too. birds of a feather fly together. if u can do one, then u can do the other. pick the one u wanna do more and dont take too long pickin. i made the mistake of not choosing which of 2 girls i wanted fast enough and they both ended up hating me 
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."Pick which ever one does better in English class, 'cause you could use the help."
LOL, damn thats funny as hell!!!! I always like remarks like this, cracks me up. lol
but seriously bro, using punctuation would help get your point across a little better.
about your little dilemma, i'd go with the first one, but still wouldn't give up hope with the 2nd one, just go straightforward with the 1st one, and talk with the 2nd one, if she offers, then tell her your seeing with so and so and if shes ok with it then damn you set it off perfectly if not then forget about it, shes the one that offered, you didnt ask
LOL, damn thats funny as hell!!!! I always like remarks like this, cracks me up. lol
but seriously bro, using punctuation would help get your point across a little better.
about your little dilemma, i'd go with the first one, but still wouldn't give up hope with the 2nd one, just go straightforward with the 1st one, and talk with the 2nd one, if she offers, then tell her your seeing with so and so and if shes ok with it then damn you set it off perfectly if not then forget about it, shes the one that offered, you didnt ask