When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The technique is called "Sleight of Mouth" by Jamie Smart, a brilliant and talented NLP master instructor and therapist, who just did a David D' "Interview" last month...verysuave said:so u just ask a chick "do you swallow gum?" just thought of it, and am dying to try it
I did this one the other day. Girl gave me a piece of cake to eat. After I ate it she asked me if I liked the cake. I said slowly with a smile, "It was moist and delicious, and I really enjoyed eating it"DJDamage said:I remember reading a good article on sosuave or another site once about using sexual imagery while talking to a woman without sounding sexual. The whole point of it is to make her have sexual thoughts when you talk or when you are around her.
"mmmm I like this brand of coffee its so rich in flavour and very hot and smooth when you drink it"
"yesterday I played football and it was soo humid out there, I sweated alot so when I got home I took a nice cold shower and it was the best feeling in the world"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
her reponse?Canadian Catnip said:I did this one the other day. Girl gave me a piece of cake to eat. After I ate it she asked me if I liked the cake. I said slowly with a smile, "It was moist and delicious, and I really enjoyed eating it"