Well guys, here it is:
My friend invites me to go to this local church program with this guest speaker at First Assembly of God. I end up going, and to my suprise, there was an abundance and I mean A LOT of girls there. I talk to a few people, mostly old friends and some other people. I sit down and my friend Chris( who invited me) motions for me to come n sit by him and 2 other girls. I sit next to this girl. (Keep in mind I came not really expecting to talk to any girls) I talk to her for a little bit, got her name, and she actually initiated kino first. Her body language was also very positive. Anyways, I didn't get to talk to her for a while since I forgot to get her number. I know, I know, I'm st00pid. Heh, well about a week after that, she comes up to my work to see a movie( I work in a theatre by the way). She smiled, and asked why I didn't go to church last week. I just told her that I was busy and forgot. She went in the movie with some friends and I walk in a few minutes later to do theatre checks. She waves and I leave. Coming outta the theatre, she came out and talked to me again. She asked if she'd be able to see me Wednesday at Church. I told her that I'd go and talked for about 2 minutes, then she left.
Here's where the problem erupts. As it turns out, my friend Chris is "talking" to her right now. Or so he says. Before I say anything else, let me give you a little background info on him. He LIES. And I mean constantly. I know he has her number but I highly doubt she's all that interested in him. He's also a sophomore, doesn't have a car, or a job either. The only thing he's really got going for him is that he's a pretty good athlete. Anyways, he called today and asked if I could give him a ride to Church. I told him I didn't know.
I really wanna get to talk to this girl at Church without him around but from the looks of it, he's gonna be there and sitting right next to us. I'm a pretty quick person, and I've concluded that he's probably starting to talk to this girl because I am. Plain and simple. I mean, he's my friend, but overall, he really isn't too bright.
Well, Church is tomorrow night at about 6:30. I plan on meeting her, talking, setting something up for the weekend, and picking up that number I forgot ;] You guys have any suggestions on how I should handle this situation with Chris?
My friend invites me to go to this local church program with this guest speaker at First Assembly of God. I end up going, and to my suprise, there was an abundance and I mean A LOT of girls there. I talk to a few people, mostly old friends and some other people. I sit down and my friend Chris( who invited me) motions for me to come n sit by him and 2 other girls. I sit next to this girl. (Keep in mind I came not really expecting to talk to any girls) I talk to her for a little bit, got her name, and she actually initiated kino first. Her body language was also very positive. Anyways, I didn't get to talk to her for a while since I forgot to get her number. I know, I know, I'm st00pid. Heh, well about a week after that, she comes up to my work to see a movie( I work in a theatre by the way). She smiled, and asked why I didn't go to church last week. I just told her that I was busy and forgot. She went in the movie with some friends and I walk in a few minutes later to do theatre checks. She waves and I leave. Coming outta the theatre, she came out and talked to me again. She asked if she'd be able to see me Wednesday at Church. I told her that I'd go and talked for about 2 minutes, then she left.
Here's where the problem erupts. As it turns out, my friend Chris is "talking" to her right now. Or so he says. Before I say anything else, let me give you a little background info on him. He LIES. And I mean constantly. I know he has her number but I highly doubt she's all that interested in him. He's also a sophomore, doesn't have a car, or a job either. The only thing he's really got going for him is that he's a pretty good athlete. Anyways, he called today and asked if I could give him a ride to Church. I told him I didn't know.
I really wanna get to talk to this girl at Church without him around but from the looks of it, he's gonna be there and sitting right next to us. I'm a pretty quick person, and I've concluded that he's probably starting to talk to this girl because I am. Plain and simple. I mean, he's my friend, but overall, he really isn't too bright.
Well, Church is tomorrow night at about 6:30. I plan on meeting her, talking, setting something up for the weekend, and picking up that number I forgot ;] You guys have any suggestions on how I should handle this situation with Chris?