"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ah...The valentines question

Stormblade

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Ok guys, Valentines day is hitting. I'm seeing a few girls and I feel like celebrating with one of them. Im thinking about making dinner for her and then eating some chocolates and then nailing her. I've known both girls for only a few months
Now, should we as guys just totally avoid girls on Valentines day and act like we dont even know it exists?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FitnessGuy

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Originally posted by Stormblade

Now, should we as guys just totally avoid girls on Valentines day and act like we dont even know it exists?
No lol.

Are you f4cking any girls now? If you are f4cking a few different girls then yea sure get one of them something "small" if you want. Even if you aren't f4cking any of them, getting one of them something small like flowers and a card is always nice and a good way to improve your chances of f4cking one.

Generally the value of the gift depends on the level of commitment you have with the girl as well as other factors. But yea, don't act like it doesn't exist.
 
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how about she makes dinner for YOU since your willing to spend YOUR valentines day with her and she gives you a blow job special as a side dish...

sounds fair to me!
 

Stormblade

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Lol, I'd def have her make dinner for me but she already has!
Rather recently too...
Hmm I'll frame it as a we...Like lets make a romantic dinner tonight
 

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Yeah this actually has been a question that bothered me as a don juan. I mean theoretically u should be dating multiple girls at one time. So on valentines day they all think they're special so what do u do. Ignore all of them so u dont give any one more attention, or give all of them minimal attention like a card.

Or actually choose one to spend time with?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Big Pappy

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Grandpappy always told me to avoid any LTR's between teh months of October and Valentines Day. That way you could do whatever you wished. And no needless spending cash on obligatory chocolates.

What's wrong with a 1.50 card? Tell her that you enjoy her company on the inside of the card and kiss her.
 

OzzyBoy

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Have fun while i probably sit at home doing nothing feeling sorry for myself. :mad:
 

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Well, in my very humble opinion. There are girls out there just waiting to do something on Valentines Day. If they're seeing you they will expect something, correct?
So id say pick a girl or the girl that your seeing and do something thoughtful but not AFC...thats the whole trick
Maybe some of the other members have more of an opinion
 
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