"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ah...The valentines question

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Stormblade

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Ok guys, Valentines day is hitting. I'm seeing a few girls and I feel like celebrating with one of them. Im thinking about making dinner for her and then eating some chocolates and then nailing her. I've known both girls for only a few months
Now, should we as guys just totally avoid girls on Valentines day and act like we dont even know it exists?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Stormblade

Now, should we as guys just totally avoid girls on Valentines day and act like we dont even know it exists?
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No lol.

Are you f4cking any girls now? If you are f4cking a few different girls then yea sure get one of them something "small" if you want. Even if you aren't f4cking any of them, getting one of them something small like flowers and a card is always nice and a good way to improve your chances of f4cking one.

Generally the value of the gift depends on the level of commitment you have with the girl as well as other factors. But yea, don't act like it doesn't exist.
 
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how about she makes dinner for YOU since your willing to spend YOUR valentines day with her and she gives you a blow job special as a side dish...

sounds fair to me!
 
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Lol, I'd def have her make dinner for me but she already has!
Rather recently too...
Hmm I'll frame it as a we...Like lets make a romantic dinner tonight
 
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Yeah this actually has been a question that bothered me as a don juan. I mean theoretically u should be dating multiple girls at one time. So on valentines day they all think they're special so what do u do. Ignore all of them so u dont give any one more attention, or give all of them minimal attention like a card.

Or actually choose one to spend time with?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grandpappy always told me to avoid any LTR's between teh months of October and Valentines Day. That way you could do whatever you wished. And no needless spending cash on obligatory chocolates.

What's wrong with a 1.50 card? Tell her that you enjoy her company on the inside of the card and kiss her.
 
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Have fun while i probably sit at home doing nothing feeling sorry for myself. :mad:
 
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Well, in my very humble opinion. There are girls out there just waiting to do something on Valentines Day. If they're seeing you they will expect something, correct?
So id say pick a girl or the girl that your seeing and do something thoughtful but not AFC...thats the whole trick
Maybe some of the other members have more of an opinion
 
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