"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Age prefrence

flava

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just curious how many what do you guys prefer younger or older gf's? myself i like older im 19 and the current lucky chick is 25 and man all i can say it is nice, like a breath of fresh air after coming out of NYC. no immaturity and lots of fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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^^ r.kelly^^
 

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I'm 19, I'd go one year younger and 2-3 years older.
 

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age doesn't matter, it's just a number....
- as long as she's fit and look young and great laugth
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was JUST thinking about this today and realized how much I'd enjoy the company of a mature, 30-smth woman rather than a 20 yr old floozie (i'm 21)...
 

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Originally posted by flava
just curious how many what do you guys prefer younger or older gf's? myself i like older im 19 and the current lucky chick is 25 and man all i can say it is nice, like a breath of fresh air after coming out of NYC. no immaturity and lots of fun.


Did you move from NYC to California? I'd like to start a thread on this one, as I am contemplating a move to NYC in the future.
 

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I'm 30 and like them in the younger 20s, mainly because girls that age aren't as hung up on status **** like owning a home or wanting kids.
 

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Re: Re: Age prefrence

Originally posted by jakethasnake
Did you move from NYC to California? I'd like to start a thread on this one, as I am contemplating a move to NYC in the future.
hey whats up jake. i never lived in NYC but it sure does feel like it since im there for a week or 2 about every two months. NYC is the best city in the US imo, it just the total oppisite of cali. i remember when i first went i took the A train from jfk down to penn station, when i walked out of penn station i was right in front of madison sqaure garden and omg i ave never seen so many people cramped into one place, when people drive there is no white or yellow lines you just drive, and you cross the street any chance you get no one waits for the crosswalk light. i remeber i went to starbucks sitting at a table w/some friend and a bum came in walked up to some packaged coffee, jacked it and took off, i was like wtf? then i remeber seeing this dude on the street i didnt know if he was dead or not but the ambulance looked at him for like 5 sec picked him up like a piece of trash and drove off, no one payed attention to the dead guy in the street they just keep on walking lol. NYC is a unique place i would recommed you check it out jake, check jetblue.com and fly out of ONT tickets go for like 115-160 one way thats dame cheap. gl
 
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