just curious how many what do you guys prefer younger or older gf's? myself i like older im 19 and the current lucky chick is 25 and man all i can say it is nice, like a breath of fresh air after coming out of NYC. no immaturity and lots of fun.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Age prefrence
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
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I'm 21 and like them younger.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Originally posted by flava
just curious how many what do you guys prefer younger or older gf's? myself i like older im 19 and the current lucky chick is 25 and man all i can say it is nice, like a breath of fresh air after coming out of NYC. no immaturity and lots of fun.
Did you move from NYC to California? I'd like to start a thread on this one, as I am contemplating a move to NYC in the future.
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I'm 30 and like them in the younger 20s, mainly because girls that age aren't as hung up on status **** like owning a home or wanting kids.
Re: Re: Age prefrence
hey whats up jake. i never lived in NYC but it sure does feel like it since im there for a week or 2 about every two months. NYC is the best city in the US imo, it just the total oppisite of cali. i remember when i first went i took the A train from jfk down to penn station, when i walked out of penn station i was right in front of madison sqaure garden and omg i ave never seen so many people cramped into one place, when people drive there is no white or yellow lines you just drive, and you cross the street any chance you get no one waits for the crosswalk light. i remeber i went to starbucks sitting at a table w/some friend and a bum came in walked up to some packaged coffee, jacked it and took off, i was like wtf? then i remeber seeing this dude on the street i didnt know if he was dead or not but the ambulance looked at him for like 5 sec picked him up like a piece of trash and drove off, no one payed attention to the dead guy in the street they just keep on walking lol. NYC is a unique place i would recommed you check it out jake, check jetblue.com and fly out of ONT tickets go for like 115-160 one way thats dame cheap. glOriginally posted by jakethasnake
Did you move from NYC to California? I'd like to start a thread on this one, as I am contemplating a move to NYC in the future.