just curious how many what do you guys prefer younger or older gf's? myself i like older im 19 and the current lucky chick is 25 and man all i can say it is nice, like a breath of fresh air after coming out of NYC. no immaturity and lots of fun.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by flava
just curious how many what do you guys prefer younger or older gf's? myself i like older im 19 and the current lucky chick is 25 and man all i can say it is nice, like a breath of fresh air after coming out of NYC. no immaturity and lots of fun.
hey whats up jake. i never lived in NYC but it sure does feel like it since im there for a week or 2 about every two months. NYC is the best city in the US imo, it just the total oppisite of cali. i remember when i first went i took the A train from jfk down to penn station, when i walked out of penn station i was right in front of madison sqaure garden and omg i ave never seen so many people cramped into one place, when people drive there is no white or yellow lines you just drive, and you cross the street any chance you get no one waits for the crosswalk light. i remeber i went to starbucks sitting at a table w/some friend and a bum came in walked up to some packaged coffee, jacked it and took off, i was like wtf? then i remeber seeing this dude on the street i didnt know if he was dead or not but the ambulance looked at him for like 5 sec picked him up like a piece of trash and drove off, no one payed attention to the dead guy in the street they just keep on walking lol. NYC is a unique place i would recommed you check it out jake, check jetblue.com and fly out of ONT tickets go for like 115-160 one way thats dame cheap. glOriginally posted by jakethasnake
Did you move from NYC to California? I'd like to start a thread on this one, as I am contemplating a move to NYC in the future.