"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Age of first kiss and its effect on how men pursue women

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I clearly remember playing house with a Kindergarten female classmate at age 6 and having a makeout session which involved just kissing and hugging. While a teacher discovered us, there was no scolding that it was inappropriate.

Throughout the rest of my childhood there were a few affectionate encounters every few months/years until I lost my virginity at 16.

I say this because I think the way we view physical affection as a child helps or hampers us in relating to the opposite sex as teenagers and adults. Did us guys who started young have better luck with women than guys who never kissed a girl until their teens or twenties because of that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I clearly remember playing house with a Kindergarten female classmate at age 6 and having a makeout session which involved just kissing and hugging. While a teacher discovered us, there was no scolding that it was inappropriate.

Throughout the rest of my childhood there were a few affectionate encounters every few months/years until I lost my virginity at 16.

I say this because I think the way we view physical affection as a child helps or hampers us in relating to the opposite sex as teenagers and adults. Did us guys who started young have better luck with women than guys who never kissed a girl until their teens or twenties because of that?
any guys get there first kiss at 50?
 
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