"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Age of first kiss and its effect on how men pursue women

2Rocky

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I clearly remember playing house with a Kindergarten female classmate at age 6 and having a makeout session which involved just kissing and hugging. While a teacher discovered us, there was no scolding that it was inappropriate.

Throughout the rest of my childhood there were a few affectionate encounters every few months/years until I lost my virginity at 16.

I say this because I think the way we view physical affection as a child helps or hampers us in relating to the opposite sex as teenagers and adults. Did us guys who started young have better luck with women than guys who never kissed a girl until their teens or twenties because of that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2Rocky said:
I clearly remember playing house with a Kindergarten female classmate at age 6 and having a makeout session which involved just kissing and hugging. While a teacher discovered us, there was no scolding that it was inappropriate.

Throughout the rest of my childhood there were a few affectionate encounters every few months/years until I lost my virginity at 16.

I say this because I think the way we view physical affection as a child helps or hampers us in relating to the opposite sex as teenagers and adults. Did us guys who started young have better luck with women than guys who never kissed a girl until their teens or twenties because of that?
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any guys get there first kiss at 50?
 
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