“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blinkwatt

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I still havent found the answer to this
"Do you kiss on the first date?"
i know alot say"if you feeling it go for it"
wouldnt the second date be more proper or is that too long to wait?
iv got a date on friday,any input would be nice.
how does dinner and mini golf sound for a first date?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I usually wait to until the second date but if my kino is on high I just do it. The last woman I met with lasted all of 20 minutes before I kissed her. It wasn't anything major but it did let her know in no uncertain terms that I was interested in her and that she could continue to make advances on me if she wanted another kiss.
 

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iv got a date on friday,any input would be nice.
how does dinner and mini golf sound for a first date?
Depends on how well you know her. If you've known her for a while and have established good rapport, this is fine for a first date. If you barely know each other, going for a coffee is a much better idea.

I learned this the hard way. Women will respond better if you take things slowly on the outside, but move quickly on the inside. In other words, make a first date that doesn't seem like a first date, and work on attracting her to you.

As for the kiss after the first date, it all depends on how well things progress during that first date. If you do a good job at attracting her to you, you won't have a problem with a kiss after the first date. In fact, she may be the one to initiate it. I've been in situations where I got the kiss BEFORE the first date (after we met and exchanged numbers.)

For the inexperienced, let me put it this way, if you don't get a kiss by the end of the second date (or don't initiate it), she's
(a) not all that attracted to you
or
(b) You took too long to make a move

You'll most likely be in the friend zone if there's no kiss by the end of the second date.

If you want to do well, tease her (use ****y/funny) and combine that with kino.
 
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