iv got a date on friday,any input would be nice.
how does dinner and mini golf sound for a first date?
Depends on how well you know her. If you've known her for a while and have established good rapport, this is fine for a first date. If you barely know each other, going for a coffee is a much better idea.
I learned this the hard way. Women will respond better if you take things slowly on the outside, but move quickly on the inside. In other words, make a first date that doesn't seem like a first date, and work on attracting her to you.
As for the kiss after the first date, it all depends on how well things progress during that first date. If you do a good job at attracting her to you, you won't have a problem with a kiss after the first date. In fact, she may be the one to initiate it. I've been in situations where I got the kiss BEFORE the first date (after we met and exchanged numbers.)
For the inexperienced, let me put it this way, if you don't get a kiss by the end of the second date (or don't initiate it), she's
(a) not all that attracted to you
or
(b) You took too long to make a move
You'll most likely be in the friend zone if there's no kiss by the end of the second date.
If you want to do well, tease her (use ****y/funny) and combine that with kino.
