"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Age limits for dating.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
For example if your a 16 year old. The minimum age for potential gfs should be 14. While the maximum should be 18. Just follow the scale. Don't be a 16 year old dating a 13 year old or a 18 year old dating a 14 year old.
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rkc09 said:
How about **** you, and people date who they want?
If somebody is 13 or 14 don't you think they probaly know whats going on in there pants? I mean **** me and most of my friends hit puberty by 11.
I hate this about our country we try to make sex seem like something 'dirty' that we should hide and not tell kids about.
My outlook on a guy that goes for girls too young under him is that he doesn't have enough game to get chicks his own age or older. (unless the younger girl is really really hot or extremely mature, looks older)
Like theres this one guy I know, hes 19, dating a 14 year old. Now what do you think of that?
Theres this other guy I know, hes 20, and he wants to date this 13 year old. Like wtf!? Go to a bar and get an older girl.
But I follow the rule half your age plus 7. Seems to work out good. :rock:
Just my 2 cents.
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That doesn't mean they should be having sex. I am sure with all the video games out there most 10yr olds have good dexterity but that doesn't mean we should let them drive.
I gotta agree with rkc09.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Yes it is "ok" to date her.Jokerlsk said:
But just because theres nothing wrong with dating someone a little younger than you does not mean that people wont make it a big deal.
Just depends on your school. Maybe no one will care you are dating a younger girl, or maybe they will call you a dirty craddle robber.
I would say go for it though, in the end it wont change how people think of you, even if you catch sh1t from your friends at first.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.