"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi, i have an eighth grader who likes me. Frankly she is not that bad, but the age difference kind of bothers me. My friends say go for it though. What are your opinions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S.Y.L

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I have a girl who is almost 2 years younger than me who likes me lol. I think its a bit weird,

also, I like her cousin, whos my age haha
 

Five To One

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What grade are you in? If your a freshmen or sophmore its a-okay. Junior or Senior I would say is on shakey ground, Your going to catch a lot of sh1t from guys and girls alike. And if your 18 then you need to say no to it. It sucks but when you turn 18 theres some things you need to say goodbye to, like young girls. Its my senior year and im already 18 so I cant touch a girl unless she is at least 16.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Here's my outlook. Don't go more than 2 years over or more than two years under.

For example if your a 16 year old. The minimum age for potential gfs should be 14. While the maximum should be 18. Just follow the scale. Don't be a 16 year old dating a 13 year old or a 18 year old dating a 14 year old.
 
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rkc09 said:
Here's my outlook. Don't go more than 2 years over or more than two years under.

For example if your a 16 year old. The minimum age for potential gfs should be 14. While the maximum should be 18. Just follow the scale. Don't be a 16 year old dating a 13 year old or a 18 year old dating a 14 year old.

How about **** you, and people date who they want?

If somebody is 13 or 14 don't you think they probaly know whats going on in there pants? I mean **** me and most of my friends hit puberty by 11.

I hate this about our country we try to make sex seem like something 'dirty' that we should hide and not tell kids about.
 

Triple T

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Younger girls are too easy game.
My outlook on a guy that goes for girls too young under him is that he doesn't have enough game to get chicks his own age or older. (unless the younger girl is really really hot or extremely mature, looks older)

Like theres this one guy I know, hes 19, dating a 14 year old. Now what do you think of that?
Theres this other guy I know, hes 20, and he wants to date this 13 year old. Like wtf!? Go to a bar and get an older girl.

But I follow the rule half your age plus 7. Seems to work out good. :rock:

Just my 2 cents. :D
 

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If somebody is 13 or 14 don't you think they probaly know whats going on in there pants?
That doesn't mean they should be having sex. I am sure with all the video games out there most 10yr olds have good dexterity but that doesn't mean we should let them drive.


I gotta agree with rkc09.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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What do YOU think? Look don't ask us or go by what your mates say but just go on your own gut and what you think. The average age difference for married couples is that the guy is 3 years younger, so dating younger girls is the norm not the exception. The age difference just seems bigger in HS.
 

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Age to me isn't a factor. And I've even heard of dudes who are like around 18-21 f*cking girls in their 30's. In the end, age doesn't even matter. So don't worry about it because it'll screw you up. Especially when you get to college where there'll be a lot of people your age but a lot of people older than you.
 

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ElStud said:
Age to me isn't a factor. And I've even heard of dudes who are like around 18-21 f*cking girls in their 30's. In the end, age doesn't even matter. So don't worry about it because it'll screw you up. Especially when you get to college where there'll be a lot of people your age but a lot of people older than you.
You made it into college?
 

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Okay, so I'm a softmore, but I don't turn 16 til April, and there is this 8th grade girl that turned 14 last month. Is it okay if I date her?
 

Five To One

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Jokerlsk said:
Okay, so I'm a softmore, but I don't turn 16 til April, and there is this 8th grade girl that turned 14 last month. Is it okay if I date her?
Yes it is "ok" to date her.
But just because theres nothing wrong with dating someone a little younger than you does not mean that people wont make it a big deal.

Just depends on your school. Maybe no one will care you are dating a younger girl, or maybe they will call you a dirty craddle robber.

I would say go for it though, in the end it wont change how people think of you, even if you catch sh1t from your friends at first.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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