"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Age limits for dating.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Five To One
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
For example if your a 16 year old. The minimum age for potential gfs should be 14. While the maximum should be 18. Just follow the scale. Don't be a 16 year old dating a 13 year old or a 18 year old dating a 14 year old.
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rkc09 said:
How about **** you, and people date who they want?
If somebody is 13 or 14 don't you think they probaly know whats going on in there pants? I mean **** me and most of my friends hit puberty by 11.
I hate this about our country we try to make sex seem like something 'dirty' that we should hide and not tell kids about.
My outlook on a guy that goes for girls too young under him is that he doesn't have enough game to get chicks his own age or older. (unless the younger girl is really really hot or extremely mature, looks older)
Like theres this one guy I know, hes 19, dating a 14 year old. Now what do you think of that?
Theres this other guy I know, hes 20, and he wants to date this 13 year old. Like wtf!? Go to a bar and get an older girl.
But I follow the rule half your age plus 7. Seems to work out good. :rock:
Just my 2 cents.
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That doesn't mean they should be having sex. I am sure with all the video games out there most 10yr olds have good dexterity but that doesn't mean we should let them drive.
I gotta agree with rkc09.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Yes it is "ok" to date her.Jokerlsk said:
But just because theres nothing wrong with dating someone a little younger than you does not mean that people wont make it a big deal.
Just depends on your school. Maybe no one will care you are dating a younger girl, or maybe they will call you a dirty craddle robber.
I would say go for it though, in the end it wont change how people think of you, even if you catch sh1t from your friends at first.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.