Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How do you guys don't feel like a dirty old man You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Many young Women get very excited when they're hooking up with a much older man. I actually believe that young Women love older Men more than we realize.The young woman in her 20s I've talked about, I've let it slip how old I'm to see if it makes a difference in her actions with me, it doesn't seem to. She's started a new thing mimicking what I say, as I've said she gets so excited it makes me wonder if she's going to piss herself.
I just can't do it, ie asking her out lol
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How old are you? I've been out with girls before where the waitress thought I was her father, or gave me the big disapproving glare (some women just hate it when a guy dates a younger woman). I just thought it was funny.I just can't do it, ie asking her out lol
You’re talking yourself out of an opportunity here. Just ask her out and see what happens.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Save feelers for women and small children..
I just can't do it, ie asking her out lol
I've been hen pecked heavy duty when I mentioned I was seeing a chick that was 14 years younger than me. Older Women looked like they wanted to chop my head off.
