Age difference doesn't seem to phase her

[051AV]

The young woman in her 20s I've talked about, I've let it slip how old I'm to see if it makes a difference in her actions with me, it doesn't seem to. She's started a new thing mimicking what I say, as I've said she gets so excited it makes me wonder if she's going to piss herself.

I just can't do it, ie asking her out lol How do you guys don't feel like a dirty old man

 

[GrowingPains]

So what's the problem exactly...? Either ask her out or next.

And what's up with these emoji's, my G... Cut it out.

 

[backseatjuan]

Why even bring up your age, don’t do that.

 

[In2theGame]

The young woman in her 20s I've talked about, I've let it slip how old I'm to see if it makes a difference in her actions with me, it doesn't seem to. She's started a new thing mimicking what I say, as I've said she gets so excited it makes me wonder if she's going to piss herself.

I just can't do it, ie asking her out lol How do you guys don't feel like a dirty old man

Many young Women get very excited when they're hooking up with a much older man. I actually believe that young Women love older Men more than we realize.

 

[Plinco]

I've dated girls 10-15 years younger than me after I turned 30 all of the time. I would not give it a second thought.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I've dated women more than 25 years younger. My average is 15-20 younger. Current is 15 younger. As long as you look at it as fun only and not a LTR/gf type thing, who cares? F*uck societal norms. I've had other women glare at me (IDGAF) and men be envious, lol.

 

[zekko]

I just can't do it, ie asking her out lol How do you guys don't feel like a dirty old man

How old are you? I've been out with girls before where the waitress thought I was her father, or gave me the big disapproving glare (some women just hate it when a guy dates a younger woman). I just thought it was funny.

 

[051AV]

To be exact I would be 20 years older than her with myself being 42, as I've said before I look much younger people mistake me for 10 years. I probably wouldn't get involved with her, I interact with her up to 5 days a week she works in a professional office no we are not co-workers. She's not like younger women her age who usually just give me a blank stare she's got a brain in her head, her parents raised her right. I have a feeling why she's still single guys her age are scared of her, she does have free spirit beliefs (got some fuzz under the arms). Her father is a tough guy I don't think I would want to get in a wrangle with him we are the same build.

 

[AJ84]

To be exact I would be 20 years older than her with myself being 42, as I've said before I look much younger people mistake me for 10 years. I probably wouldn't get involved with her, I interact with her up to 5 days a week she works in a professional office no we are not co-workers. She's not like younger women her age who usually just give me a blank stare she's got a brain in her head, her parents raised her right. I have a feeling why she's still single guys her age are scared of her, she does have free spirit beliefs (got some fuzz under the arms). Her father is a tough guy I don't think I would want to get in a wrangle with him we are the same build.

You’re talking yourself out of an opportunity here. Just ask her out and see what happens.

 

[Glassguy]

Age is only a big deal if you make it a big deal....just like anything else.

You have the wrong mindset OP. She should feel lucky to go out with an older, mature yet fun dude.

These younger chicks that I spin tell me all the time that they do not like dating guys their own age (25-28) because they are so immature and not responsible. The average 28 year old has the maturity level that we did at 16-18.

One thing that I found helpful with younger women: I never use the word DATE. I only INVITE them out for a drink. It seems the women who have grown up in the hook up culture prefer "hanging out, getting together, etc". So just use some of their lingo and go for it.

 

[guru1000]

20-year age difference is rookie game. Step your game up.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

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I just can't do it, ie asking her out lol How do you guys don't feel like a dirty old man

Save feelers for women and small children.

 

[Desdinova]

If you show that the age difference doesnt bother you, it won't bother her. She will feed off how you handle it.

 

[In2theGame]

How old are you? I've been out with girls before where the waitress thought I was her father, or gave me the big disapproving glare (some women just hate it when a guy dates a younger woman). I just thought it was funny.

I've been hen pecked heavy duty when I mentioned I was seeing a chick that was 14 years younger than me. Older Women looked like they wanted to chop my head off.

The problem OP is facing is what society will think of him if he's dating a much younger chick. the way society will make immediate assumptions and view it as.....

• You are taking "advantage" of a young girl and you're a creepy "old" Man
• You are her sugar daddy and she's taking advantage of the older Man with money.
• Shame you that she could be your daughter.
• You're manipulating her in someway because she's young and naive, she needs to be rescued from this older Man.
• She's very insecure and thats why she's out with you.

The list goes on but its all complete bullsh*t. It could never be that she finds the older man sexy and attractive and he makes her feel good.
Older Men deep down will be cheering him on while the older Women will call him a disgusting pig that should be seeing a Woman his age but they lack the understanding that Men love youth. I know a family that had their daughter (early 20's) dating a Man (late 40's) and everyone went berserk.