Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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!! Age 16, And My Hairs Falling Out !!

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my heads been really ichy for the last week and whenever i itch it, a few strands of hair fall out :O am i going bald??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the average person is said to lose one to two hundred hairs a day. people shed their hair. they grow back. it's when it starts to NOT grow back or grow back thinner and thinner that you have a problem.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Male-pattern baldness is an inherited trait (has sex-linked elements), so you have a good head start (no pun intended) as to whether you'll go bald by looking at both your mother's father as well as your own father. If both went/are going bald, you're basically screwed. It was originally thought to be sex-linked on the x only, but more recent studies apparently are showing some y-linked elements (your father) as well.
 
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just so suave said:
my heads been really ichy for the last week and whenever i itch it, a few strands of hair fall out :O am i going bald??
Stop doing hardcore drugs that change your body chemistry, I know a kid who does X, acid, lSD, coke, alcohol and weed. He's 18 and already has a visible patch and does a comb over lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Stop doing hardcore drugs that change your body chemistry, I know a kid who does X, acid, lSD, coke, alcohol and weed. He's 18 and already has a visible patch and does a comb over lol.
I know a guy who plays Playstation3 and has a badly receded hairline. He sold it for a Xbox360 and his hairline grew back in two months.
 

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Could be from excessive stress, have seen that several times, affects chicks as well.
Could be a latent psoriasis. Yes, it can lead to baldness already at 19-20.
Could be just the normal amount of hair falling out.
If it continues, go see a dermatologist.
 

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ok then my hair looks thin, but it hasnt started receding yet. i get at least a comment a day from people saying they can see my scalp/ i look bald lol

time to see a doctor i think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I started graying when I was 12 years old

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I saw a bumper sticker once that said, "God gave certain people a perfect head, the rest he put hair on"
 

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If you ever seriously start going bald, do what I plan on doing.

Shave it all off :D
 

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just so suave said:
ok then my hair looks thin, but it hasnt started receding yet. i get at least a comment a day from people saying they can see my scalp/ i look bald lol

time to see a doctor i think
Given enough light you can see anyones scalp through their hair. You probably have naturally thin strands of hair or sparse hair, everyones different. You can change your hairstyle to show less scalp, my point? See a hairdresser.

However, the itchiness indicates you may have some allergic reaction or fungal infection (dandruff) both of which can cause reversible hairloss, my point? Go see a doctor.

best of luck buddy, but if you are going bald shave it all off and you will look awesomely hardcore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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