“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Okay, so I just recently danced at a club Saturday night, which was really exciting since I'm only 17 and got in with a fake I.D. Anyways, I went with a group of guys and girls I know from high school and had a really fun time. There were two girls in particular that I really enjoyed dancing with. I just asked one of them earlier tonight if she plans on going again this upcoming Saturday since she's going on vacation next week. She told me that she might be able to and it just depends on how much packing she gets done. However, I haven't mentioned anything to the other girl.

I was wondering if it's best for me to say nothing to the other girl and hope I see her again next Saturdy night, let her bring up going again Saturday, or should I initiate it and ask her if she plans on going again Saturday? Also, should I ask either one of the girls if they enjoyed themselves at the club or will I just be putting myself in a bad situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yaa dont ask they other girl....

you dont want to come off needy. If you see her though(at the club)...dance with her....get her comfortable with you...then take her away from her friends...and then its all up to what your motives are

good luck bro
 
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Well this girl is one of my friends on facebook and so I contacted her via facebook since I don't have her phone number or aim screen name. This is how the conversation went:

Me- So are you planning on going to Necto again this weekend?
Her - hmm..i'm thinking no? lol. i dunno.

So as you can see, it definitely did not go well. Her response is kind of weird too. She did say, "I dunno" so there's still a chance she might go. Anyways, did I completely blow it with her? What should I have done differently and what can I do now to get her to come? I don't really know what to do now, because I didn't expect the reponse I got at all. I thought she enjoyed herself at the dance.
 
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I'm looking for any kind of advice here. Read the post directly above this one.
 
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She said no, and then dunno. Not yes and maybe/probably.

Frankly, you seriously should NOT care this much about a random chick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LikRetsam said:
She said no, and then dunno. Not yes and maybe/probably.

Frankly, you seriously should NOT care this much about a random chick.
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I know, but she isn't just a random chick. I went to high school and middle school with her. My one weakness is that I do tend to fall for girls fast and quickly, but it usually ends up tapering off. So I do seem pretty obsessed with her right now, but I'll probably forget about her in a week or so if nothing happens.

But you didn't really give me any advice either. You just basically told me what I already know.
 
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bro her "i dunno" is a "HELL NO LOSER" just in a nice way...

its a nite club...you dont need her around

dont waste your time becoming needy around them...right now they arent intrested in you and neither should you be interested in them.

go live life and have them wonder to you...if it happens
 
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I love how no one is responding to my post, besides Charm&Style and his advice isn't even helpful.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're an idiot.
 
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Alright. You need helpful advice? Heres the deal. You barely know these girls. You danced with them. Whoopdee do. The only thing you talk to them about is the club, and its basically a brief "Are you going?" This is extremely pointless.

Just go. Forget about her. YOu talk about falling for a girl quickly? It's because you focus on one girl. You're worried about her, and she probably doesn't even know your name. If she does, it's only because you've got it on facebook.

Just go to the club this weekend, do your thing. Get some numbers. Get some follow ups. Get some nookie.
 
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Skilla_Staz said:
Alright. You need helpful advice? Heres the deal. You barely know these girls. You danced with them. Whoopdee do. The only thing you talk to them about is the club, and its basically a brief "Are you going?" This is extremely pointless.

Just go. Forget about her. YOu talk about falling for a girl quickly? It's because you focus on one girl. You're worried about her, and she probably doesn't even know your name. If she does, it's only because you've got it on facebook.

Just go to the club this weekend, do your thing. Get some numbers. Get some follow ups. Get some nookie.
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Thanks for the advice, but you're wrong about me not knowing the girls at all. I've known them since middle school and I was just really surprised from the response of the one girl. That's probably why I'm focusing on her so much.
 
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