"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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After Sex Behavior

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Its midnight, you're both exhausted after a great date and laying on the bed.
Let's say you slept with this girl for the first time or she's a plate in the beginning of your relationship, you've been at it handful at most.
Do you watch a movie and spoon, do you sleep over or do you go home?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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marmel75

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Hell no...I Fvck her until she has drained every last drop of *** out of me or until I've been hard for so long it hurts to keep going...
 

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Well, we've got to do something to kill the 20 minutes or so before I can fvck again, so I might as well talk to her.

So what was your name again?....How old are you?....You married?....Ah, I see...any kids?.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Well, we've got to do something to kill the 20 minutes or so before I can fvck again, so I might as well talk to her.

So what was your name again?....How old are you?....You married?....Ah, I see...any kids?.
20 minutes?? Man you got to get that down to 5 or less, lol...I got times where I literally don't even go soft after I blow a load...
 

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Hell no...I Fvck her until she has drained every last drop of *** out of me or until I've been hard for so long it hurts to keep going...
Okay, but what do you do when you're done smashing?
 

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Okay, but what do you do when you're done smashing?
depends...sometimes lay there for a while and talk, sometimes get up and watch TV, sometimes jump in the shower, sometimes I get up and leave. I'm not big on sleeping over tho...that leads to them getting the wrong ideas...
 
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Was curious about this topic because I haven't seen a thread like this. Me, I like to sleep over and cuddle, this is part of sex, as in, she likes your body enough to touch you while you're not plowing.
Actually last week I experienced for the first time a girl that would not enjoy physical contact after sex... probably because we're living far away.
 

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Was curious about this topic because I haven't seen a thread like this. Me, I like to sleep over and cuddle, this is part of sex, as in, she likes your body enough to touch you while you're not plowing.
Actually last week I experienced for the first time a girl that would not enjoy physical contact after sex... probably because we're living far away.
Only do that if you want them to be your girlfriend.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Honestly you can get away with either. You should really do what YOU want to do and enjoy the moment. If you aren't looking for a relationship, it is still ok to spend the night and cuddle, but you have to compensate a bit, by talking to and hanging out with her less over the coming week, so she doesn't go all into relationship mode.

I prefer to rock their world, personally. Multiple sex sessions over a night, cuddling, holding each other, deep conversations, maybe even cooking her breakfast in the morning. It turns into a magical night she will remember for weeks. Then I disappear for a while, tell her reasons why I can't hang out if she calls. This creates a powerful affect in her mind or time with you being "magical" but by pacing her time with you, it keeps her out of thinking its a relationship. Eventually she starts to crave those nights with you, because they are so rare and special. She will drop everything she is doing to hang out with you next time you call, because time with you is so scarce and ROCKS her world!
 
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