"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its midnight, you're both exhausted after a great date and laying on the bed.
Let's say you slept with this girl for the first time or she's a plate in the beginning of your relationship, you've been at it handful at most.
Do you watch a movie and spoon, do you sleep over or do you go home?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hell no...I Fvck her until she has drained every last drop of *** out of me or until I've been hard for so long it hurts to keep going...
 

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Well, we've got to do something to kill the 20 minutes or so before I can fvck again, so I might as well talk to her.

So what was your name again?....How old are you?....You married?....Ah, I see...any kids?.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, we've got to do something to kill the 20 minutes or so before I can fvck again, so I might as well talk to her.

So what was your name again?....How old are you?....You married?....Ah, I see...any kids?.
20 minutes?? Man you got to get that down to 5 or less, lol...I got times where I literally don't even go soft after I blow a load...
 

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Hell no...I Fvck her until she has drained every last drop of *** out of me or until I've been hard for so long it hurts to keep going...
Okay, but what do you do when you're done smashing?
 

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Okay, but what do you do when you're done smashing?
depends...sometimes lay there for a while and talk, sometimes get up and watch TV, sometimes jump in the shower, sometimes I get up and leave. I'm not big on sleeping over tho...that leads to them getting the wrong ideas...
 
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Was curious about this topic because I haven't seen a thread like this. Me, I like to sleep over and cuddle, this is part of sex, as in, she likes your body enough to touch you while you're not plowing.
Actually last week I experienced for the first time a girl that would not enjoy physical contact after sex... probably because we're living far away.
 

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Was curious about this topic because I haven't seen a thread like this. Me, I like to sleep over and cuddle, this is part of sex, as in, she likes your body enough to touch you while you're not plowing.
Actually last week I experienced for the first time a girl that would not enjoy physical contact after sex... probably because we're living far away.
Only do that if you want them to be your girlfriend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Honestly you can get away with either. You should really do what YOU want to do and enjoy the moment. If you aren't looking for a relationship, it is still ok to spend the night and cuddle, but you have to compensate a bit, by talking to and hanging out with her less over the coming week, so she doesn't go all into relationship mode.

I prefer to rock their world, personally. Multiple sex sessions over a night, cuddling, holding each other, deep conversations, maybe even cooking her breakfast in the morning. It turns into a magical night she will remember for weeks. Then I disappear for a while, tell her reasons why I can't hang out if she calls. This creates a powerful affect in her mind or time with you being "magical" but by pacing her time with you, it keeps her out of thinking its a relationship. Eventually she starts to crave those nights with you, because they are so rare and special. She will drop everything she is doing to hang out with you next time you call, because time with you is so scarce and ROCKS her world!
 
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