"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

After oral sex, girl freaking out...

Lil Magic

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2007
Messages
146
Reaction score
2
Age
35
Location
Nassau, Bahamas/ presently, Collegevill Minnesota
Long story short, this girl i wanted to have sex with from the first week of college came to my room. She has a new bf, just started dating this week. However, I got her horny and ate her at my room. After I made her ***, she stopped me and told me that she looks at me different and will probably start treating me different and avoiding me because I made her cheat on her bf. In addition to that, she has this idea that i'm gonna tell all my friends about this.
She told me she probably wont talk to me for a while because of this...however, later on that night, she text me to tell me that i did an amazing job eating her... it was her first time being eaten and my first time eating... but later on in the convo went back to this thing that she will probably start avoiding me...

What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

search1ng

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
546
Reaction score
8
She wants you etc etc etc. What did you expect her reaction to be? Of course she's going to be feeling like a slut. Doesn't mean she doesn't want you though - do what you've been doing, just make sure you're decisive about it.
 

romangod

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2004
Messages
1,067
Reaction score
49
Location
Canada
Lil Magic said:
What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?
Maybe you ate too much.


Cheers!
 

JustALurker

New Member
Joined
Feb 14, 2009
Messages
1
Reaction score
1
Lil Magic said:
Long story short, this girl i wanted to have sex with from the first week of college came to my room. She has a new bf, just started dating this week. However, I got her horny and ate her at my room. After I made her ***, she stopped me and told me that she looks at me different and will probably start treating me different and avoiding me because I made her cheat on her bf. In addition to that, she has this idea that i'm gonna tell all my friends about this.
She told me she probably wont talk to me for a while because of this...however, later on that night, she text me to tell me that i did an amazing job eating her... it was her first time being eaten and my first time eating... but later on in the convo went back to this thing that she will probably start avoiding me...

What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?

What's so hard to figure out? She reversed the roles on you. Like a guy just looking for a girl to do nothing more than holler on his tube and then blow her off.

This is what happened to you. She wet your face, nut in your mouth and sent you on your way. Probably bragging to her friends how you give up some good lapping.

She'll be back to get your face tween her legs again soon enough... If you don't mind being her c%m buack that is...
 

jophil28

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2006
Messages
5,216
Reaction score
278
Location
Gold Coast. Aust.
romangod said:
Maybe you ate too much.


Cheers!
I bet she was thinking, " OMG, supersize me..."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

moneyisking

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2009
Messages
626
Reaction score
11
LOL Fvcking Women. Typical. I probably told her do whatever the fvck you want, but I won't tell anyone b/c I am responsible guy. But of course, when I am drunk, I might tell some of my good buddies.
 

Da Realist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2005
Messages
798
Reaction score
23
Location
Memphis, TN
Whenever a woman says she's never going to talk to you again, she's lying. They will always say something afterward. Basically you're going to be her emergency d1ick for when her bf is messing up.
 

amoka

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2006
Messages
1,931
Reaction score
62
Lil Magic said:
What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?
Nothing. It is buyers remorse she is feeling. She will try contacting you again, tell her she is right... and that you don't think it is a good idea for them to be in contact with each other and STOP corresponding with her.
 

Lil Magic

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2007
Messages
146
Reaction score
2
Age
35
Location
Nassau, Bahamas/ presently, Collegevill Minnesota
amoka said:
Nothing. It is buyers remorse she is feeling. She will try contacting you again, tell her she is right... and that you don't think it is a good idea for them to be in contact with each other and STOP corresponding with her.
Lol, I really just wanted a fvck buddy. Hopefully, when she's all hot and bothered (and especially her boyfriend is like a two hour car ride away, and even then she can probably only see him on the weekend), she can just swing by and we have a little fun...
 

OFWHAP

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2005
Messages
118
Reaction score
2
She's probably telling you all this so that you don't call/text her while she's with her boyfriend. She doesn't want you to think she's leaving him for you..... yet.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

game.r

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2008
Messages
136
Reaction score
4
Lil Magic said:
Lol, I really just wanted a fvck buddy. Hopefully, when she's all hot and bothered (and especially her boyfriend is like a two hour car ride away, and even then she can probably only see him on the weekend), she can just swing by and we have a little fun...
Personally i'd be pretty pissed if i ate a girl out and she didn't reciprocate (but then i'd never just eat a girl out). I believe you should call her on this. Amoka gave you the best advice so far... but since you want a FB, here's what i'd do.

When she contacts you (and she will), Just reply that you've been thinking about what happened and that it was selfish of her not to reciprocate, however if she wants to return the favor you'd be willing to forgive her. But you agree that you should probably just not speak to each other again.

Don't respond to anything she says... just hold. Either she comes over and gives you head and/or hot sex or she stops speaking to you... win win imo.
 
Top