"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After oral sex, girl freaking out...

Lil Magic

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Long story short, this girl i wanted to have sex with from the first week of college came to my room. She has a new bf, just started dating this week. However, I got her horny and ate her at my room. After I made her ***, she stopped me and told me that she looks at me different and will probably start treating me different and avoiding me because I made her cheat on her bf. In addition to that, she has this idea that i'm gonna tell all my friends about this.
She told me she probably wont talk to me for a while because of this...however, later on that night, she text me to tell me that i did an amazing job eating her... it was her first time being eaten and my first time eating... but later on in the convo went back to this thing that she will probably start avoiding me...

What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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search1ng

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She wants you etc etc etc. What did you expect her reaction to be? Of course she's going to be feeling like a slut. Doesn't mean she doesn't want you though - do what you've been doing, just make sure you're decisive about it.
 

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Lil Magic said:
What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?
Maybe you ate too much.


Cheers!
 

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Lil Magic said:
Long story short, this girl i wanted to have sex with from the first week of college came to my room. She has a new bf, just started dating this week. However, I got her horny and ate her at my room. After I made her ***, she stopped me and told me that she looks at me different and will probably start treating me different and avoiding me because I made her cheat on her bf. In addition to that, she has this idea that i'm gonna tell all my friends about this.
She told me she probably wont talk to me for a while because of this...however, later on that night, she text me to tell me that i did an amazing job eating her... it was her first time being eaten and my first time eating... but later on in the convo went back to this thing that she will probably start avoiding me...

What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?

What's so hard to figure out? She reversed the roles on you. Like a guy just looking for a girl to do nothing more than holler on his tube and then blow her off.

This is what happened to you. She wet your face, nut in your mouth and sent you on your way. Probably bragging to her friends how you give up some good lapping.

She'll be back to get your face tween her legs again soon enough... If you don't mind being her c%m buack that is...
 

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romangod said:
Maybe you ate too much.


Cheers!
I bet she was thinking, " OMG, supersize me..."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LOL Fvcking Women. Typical. I probably told her do whatever the fvck you want, but I won't tell anyone b/c I am responsible guy. But of course, when I am drunk, I might tell some of my good buddies.
 

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Whenever a woman says she's never going to talk to you again, she's lying. They will always say something afterward. Basically you're going to be her emergency d1ick for when her bf is messing up.
 

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Lil Magic said:
What did I do wrong and is there anyway to reverse it?
Nothing. It is buyers remorse she is feeling. She will try contacting you again, tell her she is right... and that you don't think it is a good idea for them to be in contact with each other and STOP corresponding with her.
 

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amoka said:
Nothing. It is buyers remorse she is feeling. She will try contacting you again, tell her she is right... and that you don't think it is a good idea for them to be in contact with each other and STOP corresponding with her.
Lol, I really just wanted a fvck buddy. Hopefully, when she's all hot and bothered (and especially her boyfriend is like a two hour car ride away, and even then she can probably only see him on the weekend), she can just swing by and we have a little fun...
 

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She's probably telling you all this so that you don't call/text her while she's with her boyfriend. She doesn't want you to think she's leaving him for you..... yet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lil Magic said:
Lol, I really just wanted a fvck buddy. Hopefully, when she's all hot and bothered (and especially her boyfriend is like a two hour car ride away, and even then she can probably only see him on the weekend), she can just swing by and we have a little fun...
Personally i'd be pretty pissed if i ate a girl out and she didn't reciprocate (but then i'd never just eat a girl out). I believe you should call her on this. Amoka gave you the best advice so far... but since you want a FB, here's what i'd do.

When she contacts you (and she will), Just reply that you've been thinking about what happened and that it was selfish of her not to reciprocate, however if she wants to return the favor you'd be willing to forgive her. But you agree that you should probably just not speak to each other again.

Don't respond to anything she says... just hold. Either she comes over and gives you head and/or hot sex or she stops speaking to you... win win imo.
 
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