Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It depends on how much rapport you've already built with the woman. If you're meeting someone the first time off POF, a coffee date is a great idea. If she's someone you've interacted with a few times at a bar, then an action date is a better idea.lolwut said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i promise, promise, PROMISE her pv$$y won't be worth the trouble. i don't have to see her or even meet her to guarantee what i'm saying. i bet you she wont even be in your top 5 lays.......if that. for whatever reason, the girls who make you jump through the most hoops, their pvssy ain't worth a ****...much less all that hard work and time you put in. UNLESS it's a virgin church girl, then yeah i can see, but this gal sounds like a man playing skank c0ck tease to me. trust me, it ain't worth your time no matter how much you think it is. i've been there, i've put in HARD work for some below average a$$ from a girl i thought would be worth it. it ain't.Delly2000 said: