Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It depends on how much rapport you've already built with the woman. If you're meeting someone the first time off POF, a coffee date is a great idea. If she's someone you've interacted with a few times at a bar, then an action date is a better idea.lolwut said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i promise, promise, PROMISE her pv$$y won't be worth the trouble. i don't have to see her or even meet her to guarantee what i'm saying. i bet you she wont even be in your top 5 lays.......if that. for whatever reason, the girls who make you jump through the most hoops, their pvssy ain't worth a ****...much less all that hard work and time you put in. UNLESS it's a virgin church girl, then yeah i can see, but this gal sounds like a man playing skank c0ck tease to me. trust me, it ain't worth your time no matter how much you think it is. i've been there, i've put in HARD work for some below average a$$ from a girl i thought would be worth it. it ain't.Delly2000 said: