You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
It depends on how much rapport you've already built with the woman. If you're meeting someone the first time off POF, a coffee date is a great idea. If she's someone you've interacted with a few times at a bar, then an action date is a better idea.lolwut said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
i promise, promise, PROMISE her pv$$y won't be worth the trouble. i don't have to see her or even meet her to guarantee what i'm saying. i bet you she wont even be in your top 5 lays.......if that. for whatever reason, the girls who make you jump through the most hoops, their pvssy ain't worth a ****...much less all that hard work and time you put in. UNLESS it's a virgin church girl, then yeah i can see, but this gal sounds like a man playing skank c0ck tease to me. trust me, it ain't worth your time no matter how much you think it is. i've been there, i've put in HARD work for some below average a$$ from a girl i thought would be worth it. it ain't.Delly2000 said: