"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok so i got the number of this chick! This isnt really the problem. But most of the time when i text them just to touch base and see if they are keen to meet up. She replies but nothing about meeting up

Whats goin on here??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, I think you should have brought it up, instead of waiting for her to mention it. Your the man, take control of the situation. Mention a time and place to meet. This way, you will at least KNOW where she stands, instead of waiting around for her to make a move.
 
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You should phone them instead of texting them. You should propose a specific day, time and place/activity and let her respond.

By sending a text you appear weak and lacking confidence. Plus you don't know what to do next when she doesn't reply to your invitation. On the phone she has to give a response.

Of course, calling requires more confidence. That's one reason it is more likely to get you a date! Chicks like CONFIDENCE.
 
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Lol, texting? that's for high school kids. Grow some balls and call the bytch. Ya aint got nothing to lose anyway. If she says no, that's her loss.
 
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