"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nish81

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Ok so i got the number of this chick! This isnt really the problem. But most of the time when i text them just to touch base and see if they are keen to meet up. She replies but nothing about meeting up

Whats goin on here??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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biker_gixxer

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Well, I think you should have brought it up, instead of waiting for her to mention it. Your the man, take control of the situation. Mention a time and place to meet. This way, you will at least KNOW where she stands, instead of waiting around for her to make a move.
 

JJMcLure

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You should phone them instead of texting them. You should propose a specific day, time and place/activity and let her respond.

By sending a text you appear weak and lacking confidence. Plus you don't know what to do next when she doesn't reply to your invitation. On the phone she has to give a response.

Of course, calling requires more confidence. That's one reason it is more likely to get you a date! Chicks like CONFIDENCE.
 

fukuy

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Lol, texting? that's for high school kids. Grow some balls and call the bytch. Ya aint got nothing to lose anyway. If she says no, that's her loss.
 
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