"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nish81

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Ok so i got the number of this chick! This isnt really the problem. But most of the time when i text them just to touch base and see if they are keen to meet up. She replies but nothing about meeting up

Whats goin on here??
 

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biker_gixxer

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Well, I think you should have brought it up, instead of waiting for her to mention it. Your the man, take control of the situation. Mention a time and place to meet. This way, you will at least KNOW where she stands, instead of waiting around for her to make a move.
 

JJMcLure

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You should phone them instead of texting them. You should propose a specific day, time and place/activity and let her respond.

By sending a text you appear weak and lacking confidence. Plus you don't know what to do next when she doesn't reply to your invitation. On the phone she has to give a response.

Of course, calling requires more confidence. That's one reason it is more likely to get you a date! Chicks like CONFIDENCE.
 

fukuy

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Lol, texting? that's for high school kids. Grow some balls and call the bytch. Ya aint got nothing to lose anyway. If she says no, that's her loss.
 
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