"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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after a couple ONS....

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after a couple one night stands with girls i picked up at clubs/lounges i feel like im losing part of myself, and this is just not for me.. mind you these girls were HOT.. this just isnt what i want...

i feel like every time it happens, i lose a part of myself.. is this normal? anybody else have similar feelings? or am i just ****ed up..

****, i just feel so empty... :/
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes definitely. I find having even more sex with ppl you don't care about is a temporary solution.
 

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So why do you f0ck chicks that you don´t care about...? Mind you, I am not asking about one night stands, that´s not the point. Why do you chose your one night stands excusively by looks? On how hot the broad is, i.e. on how much game you have to throw to get her? Some kind of mental masturbation in that... a little bit. But what I am aiming at - I never ever bonk a girl that leaves me cold as a person. Then I guess you really lower yourself to an animal level. Why would you do that? And I absolutely am not speaking here about time limits... You can click on a personal as well as sexual level within minutes. The fastest sex of my life was within 20 min of getting to know the chick... but we just clicked... one of my fondest memories.

So basically - dont f0ck girls that don´t do anything for your heart, but are just making you horny. That really is detrimental to your soul, IMHO.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rudra said:
So why do you f0ck chicks that you don´t care about...? Mind you, I am not asking about one night stands, that´s not the point. Why do you chose your one night stands excusively by looks? On how hot the broad is, i.e. on how much game you have to throw to get her? Some kind of mental masturbation in that... a little bit. But what I am aiming at - I never ever bonk a girl that leaves me cold as a person. Then I guess you really lower yourself to an animal level. Why would you do that? And I absolutely am not speaking here about time limits... You can click on a personal as well as sexual level within minutes. The fastest sex of my life was within 20 min of getting to know the chick... but we just clicked... one of my fondest memories.

So basically - dont f0ck girls that don´t do anything for your heart, but are just making you horny. That really is detrimental to your soul, IMHO.
Pffft, only if your weak-spirited imo. If ppl can live through death of loved ones, disfigurement, heartbreak etc, I reckon I can get over the empty feeling you get after having sex with some random girl.

You gotta be pretty cold-hearted to be a PUA anyway, its not for everyone.

Call me Deuce Bigalow, cold-blooded gigolo. Where did I hear that? Damn thats gonna annoy me now. I think its in a rap song :D
 

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L777 said:
I reckon I can get over the empty feeling you get after having sex with some random girl.
I wouldn't say it's an empty feeling... quite the contrary...

I get a feeling of euphoria if not a warming pleasantness after I dump my load into a hot babe... Kinda makes me wanna have a cigar in my hugh hefner PJs. Really sets me up for the next day or week... which ever you'll have it...
 

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MacDiddy said:
I wouldn't say it's an empty feeling... quite the contrary...

I get a feeling of euphoria if not a warming pleasantness after I dump my load into a hot babe... Kinda makes me wanna have a cigar in my hugh hefner PJs. Really sets me up for the next day or week... which ever you'll have it...
Yea man exactly. I was just using the terminology that the other guy used. Often I feel no attachment to the girl, but I'll feel a million bucks myself....like some kind of pimp....especially if she was really hot. No better feeling imo. Makes you really feel like a man.
 
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