"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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after a couple ONS....

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after a couple one night stands with girls i picked up at clubs/lounges i feel like im losing part of myself, and this is just not for me.. mind you these girls were HOT.. this just isnt what i want...

i feel like every time it happens, i lose a part of myself.. is this normal? anybody else have similar feelings? or am i just ****ed up..

****, i just feel so empty... :/
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yes definitely. I find having even more sex with ppl you don't care about is a temporary solution.
 

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So why do you f0ck chicks that you don´t care about...? Mind you, I am not asking about one night stands, that´s not the point. Why do you chose your one night stands excusively by looks? On how hot the broad is, i.e. on how much game you have to throw to get her? Some kind of mental masturbation in that... a little bit. But what I am aiming at - I never ever bonk a girl that leaves me cold as a person. Then I guess you really lower yourself to an animal level. Why would you do that? And I absolutely am not speaking here about time limits... You can click on a personal as well as sexual level within minutes. The fastest sex of my life was within 20 min of getting to know the chick... but we just clicked... one of my fondest memories.

So basically - dont f0ck girls that don´t do anything for your heart, but are just making you horny. That really is detrimental to your soul, IMHO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rudra said:
So why do you f0ck chicks that you don´t care about...? Mind you, I am not asking about one night stands, that´s not the point. Why do you chose your one night stands excusively by looks? On how hot the broad is, i.e. on how much game you have to throw to get her? Some kind of mental masturbation in that... a little bit. But what I am aiming at - I never ever bonk a girl that leaves me cold as a person. Then I guess you really lower yourself to an animal level. Why would you do that? And I absolutely am not speaking here about time limits... You can click on a personal as well as sexual level within minutes. The fastest sex of my life was within 20 min of getting to know the chick... but we just clicked... one of my fondest memories.

So basically - dont f0ck girls that don´t do anything for your heart, but are just making you horny. That really is detrimental to your soul, IMHO.
Pffft, only if your weak-spirited imo. If ppl can live through death of loved ones, disfigurement, heartbreak etc, I reckon I can get over the empty feeling you get after having sex with some random girl.

You gotta be pretty cold-hearted to be a PUA anyway, its not for everyone.

Call me Deuce Bigalow, cold-blooded gigolo. Where did I hear that? Damn thats gonna annoy me now. I think its in a rap song :D
 

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L777 said:
I reckon I can get over the empty feeling you get after having sex with some random girl.
I wouldn't say it's an empty feeling... quite the contrary...

I get a feeling of euphoria if not a warming pleasantness after I dump my load into a hot babe... Kinda makes me wanna have a cigar in my hugh hefner PJs. Really sets me up for the next day or week... which ever you'll have it...
 

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MacDiddy said:
I wouldn't say it's an empty feeling... quite the contrary...

I get a feeling of euphoria if not a warming pleasantness after I dump my load into a hot babe... Kinda makes me wanna have a cigar in my hugh hefner PJs. Really sets me up for the next day or week... which ever you'll have it...
Yea man exactly. I was just using the terminology that the other guy used. Often I feel no attachment to the girl, but I'll feel a million bucks myself....like some kind of pimp....especially if she was really hot. No better feeling imo. Makes you really feel like a man.
 
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