"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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after a couple ONS....

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after a couple one night stands with girls i picked up at clubs/lounges i feel like im losing part of myself, and this is just not for me.. mind you these girls were HOT.. this just isnt what i want...

i feel like every time it happens, i lose a part of myself.. is this normal? anybody else have similar feelings? or am i just ****ed up..

****, i just feel so empty... :/
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes definitely. I find having even more sex with ppl you don't care about is a temporary solution.
 

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So why do you f0ck chicks that you don´t care about...? Mind you, I am not asking about one night stands, that´s not the point. Why do you chose your one night stands excusively by looks? On how hot the broad is, i.e. on how much game you have to throw to get her? Some kind of mental masturbation in that... a little bit. But what I am aiming at - I never ever bonk a girl that leaves me cold as a person. Then I guess you really lower yourself to an animal level. Why would you do that? And I absolutely am not speaking here about time limits... You can click on a personal as well as sexual level within minutes. The fastest sex of my life was within 20 min of getting to know the chick... but we just clicked... one of my fondest memories.

So basically - dont f0ck girls that don´t do anything for your heart, but are just making you horny. That really is detrimental to your soul, IMHO.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rudra said:
So why do you f0ck chicks that you don´t care about...? Mind you, I am not asking about one night stands, that´s not the point. Why do you chose your one night stands excusively by looks? On how hot the broad is, i.e. on how much game you have to throw to get her? Some kind of mental masturbation in that... a little bit. But what I am aiming at - I never ever bonk a girl that leaves me cold as a person. Then I guess you really lower yourself to an animal level. Why would you do that? And I absolutely am not speaking here about time limits... You can click on a personal as well as sexual level within minutes. The fastest sex of my life was within 20 min of getting to know the chick... but we just clicked... one of my fondest memories.

So basically - dont f0ck girls that don´t do anything for your heart, but are just making you horny. That really is detrimental to your soul, IMHO.
Pffft, only if your weak-spirited imo. If ppl can live through death of loved ones, disfigurement, heartbreak etc, I reckon I can get over the empty feeling you get after having sex with some random girl.

You gotta be pretty cold-hearted to be a PUA anyway, its not for everyone.

Call me Deuce Bigalow, cold-blooded gigolo. Where did I hear that? Damn thats gonna annoy me now. I think its in a rap song :D
 

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L777 said:
I reckon I can get over the empty feeling you get after having sex with some random girl.
I wouldn't say it's an empty feeling... quite the contrary...

I get a feeling of euphoria if not a warming pleasantness after I dump my load into a hot babe... Kinda makes me wanna have a cigar in my hugh hefner PJs. Really sets me up for the next day or week... which ever you'll have it...
 

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MacDiddy said:
I wouldn't say it's an empty feeling... quite the contrary...

I get a feeling of euphoria if not a warming pleasantness after I dump my load into a hot babe... Kinda makes me wanna have a cigar in my hugh hefner PJs. Really sets me up for the next day or week... which ever you'll have it...
Yea man exactly. I was just using the terminology that the other guy used. Often I feel no attachment to the girl, but I'll feel a million bucks myself....like some kind of pimp....especially if she was really hot. No better feeling imo. Makes you really feel like a man.
 
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