metro_soldier91
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hi,
met a girl on tinder, first date was a hike, after which we went to a bar, then back to hers, for drinks and I found it easy to get along with her and escalted- we had sex.
I set up 2 more meet ups which both resulted in sex at her place, so basically saw her 3 times in 3 weeks staying at her place. the sex got better each time, was not limited to the bedroom.
Messaging was very low- kept it short and simple- mainly for organising the dates, but also a few responses to her asking about my day etc, but not much. She did ask for my snapchat , to which i said nah we can just keep using this(messanger)
a few things: she told me about the last guy she saw, how he is basically a stalker who is crazy in love with her, sends her massive texts, handwritten letters, rings her, drives past her house, leaves gifts at the door. I just laughed at this, but also suggested a restraining order. she seemed quite freaked out by it but also found it funny. and she told me about her ex who she had a long distance relationship with, but would never want sex when they met.
So anyway, I had a crazy busy week at work so, asked her on a date the night before, to which i got: "I'm away in _____ tomorrow"
no response back from me, knew i left it pretty late to ask so got on with my weekend. But the lack on rescheduling by her was an indicator.
got a message from her over the weekend asking about my day, then her telling me to have a good day yesterday. I decided to hit her up and ask her out Friday night. the response I got was just "could do"
not a yes, so must be a no?
advice on how to proceed please
personally don't think "could do" deserves a response
and asking for a proper answer is needy, why would i keep my friday free for a 'possibility'
cheers in advance
met a girl on tinder, first date was a hike, after which we went to a bar, then back to hers, for drinks and I found it easy to get along with her and escalted- we had sex.
I set up 2 more meet ups which both resulted in sex at her place, so basically saw her 3 times in 3 weeks staying at her place. the sex got better each time, was not limited to the bedroom.
Messaging was very low- kept it short and simple- mainly for organising the dates, but also a few responses to her asking about my day etc, but not much. She did ask for my snapchat , to which i said nah we can just keep using this(messanger)
a few things: she told me about the last guy she saw, how he is basically a stalker who is crazy in love with her, sends her massive texts, handwritten letters, rings her, drives past her house, leaves gifts at the door. I just laughed at this, but also suggested a restraining order. she seemed quite freaked out by it but also found it funny. and she told me about her ex who she had a long distance relationship with, but would never want sex when they met.
So anyway, I had a crazy busy week at work so, asked her on a date the night before, to which i got: "I'm away in _____ tomorrow"
no response back from me, knew i left it pretty late to ask so got on with my weekend. But the lack on rescheduling by her was an indicator.
got a message from her over the weekend asking about my day, then her telling me to have a good day yesterday. I decided to hit her up and ask her out Friday night. the response I got was just "could do"
not a yes, so must be a no?
advice on how to proceed please
personally don't think "could do" deserves a response
and asking for a proper answer is needy, why would i keep my friday free for a 'possibility'
cheers in advance