Afraid to talk to girls? Maybe your friends are to blame

[tryst type]

Just had a realization last night while out with one of my friends. He by nature is an introvert and kind of a downer.

While we were out I'd try to be open and friendly to people but his energy would instantly kill the mood and I'd feel held back.

Then I started thinking about my other friends and they're all in serious relationships, which makes them very held back in talking to strangers!

Couldn't help but notice they play a big role in my somewhat disposition to hesitate talking to girls sometimes.

Anyway to fix this? I'm now aware which should help.

 

[Konada]

Sarge solo. Or find new friends who are into sarging as well.

 

[Locogooner]

****ing oath!

whenever I'm with my more popular outgoing friends i feel more confident and "gamey"

 

[Mr Wright]

Ive got the same issue with my friend, i know that he'd never approach a girl. So what i do is, i go out with 2-3 guys and open a large set of girls and bring them over to my guy friends. The guys are happy and i can do whatever, i can keep coming back and flirt with the chick im interested in, then take the attention away by going off to find other girls. Works a treat.

Or go out on your own, which has its drawbacks and its benefits.

Or hang around with guys that you meet out who talk to chicks. Nothing against community guys but i find them the worst to hang out with(from my experience) because all they want to do is approach and talk game. I'd rather just chill with my beer, talk about football rather than have to approach 20 sets in 3 hours. If someone catches my eye, i'll go and say hi.

 

[nismo-4]

Go solo without looking creepy. Extra points for a Ferrari.

Don't go out with players, they'll take your targets for their personal gain.
Don't go out with downers, they'll clip you out of the sky.
Do go out with ATTRACTIVE women, they make you appear more desirable.

Do a barrel roll!

Case closed.

 

[HariPoter13]

If your friends are holding you back, you have to make a choice. You.. or them.

 

[Borknagar]

Yeah man, ditch people who are negative to your life, I've done that. I have nothing to do with my old friends. Get some new ones, get ones into pic up, believe it or not but I've met quite a few cool ass dudes from the pick up scene, not all are douches like the so called "master PUA gurus" are kinda known to be.

I totally ditched my old groiups of friends, they had nothing going for them, losers, lazy asses mental issues, etc. PLus my interests and my personality has changed to be nothing like those guys.

 

[Mike32ct]

If your wingman is hot and/or has great game, you lose.

If your wingman is ugly and/or has sh@tty game, you lose.

If your wingman is a Community guy who only wants to talk game and run silly openers, you lose.

If your wingman is shy and quiet, you lose.

If your wingman is life of the party outgoing (and you aren't), you lose.

I had zero success until I started going solo.

 

[Konada]

If your wingman is hot and/or has great game, you lose.

If your wingman is ugly and/or has sh@tty game, you lose.

If your wingman is a Community guy who only wants to talk game and run silly openers, you lose.

If your wingman is shy and quiet, you lose.

If your wingman is life of the party outgoing (and you aren't), you lose.

I had zero success until I started going solo.

If your wingman is a hot woman - You win

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree with Konada and Judge Nismo that a good looking female can make a great wing.

I was just pointing out the downsides of winging with dudes.