Afraid to get into a relationship?

[mtlwlu]

Im always apprehensive to get into a relationship because I feel like I can do so much better, or something better can come a long and I dont want to be tied down, plus this DJ thing simply put is really F***ing fun. Anyone else feel this way? A few girls are starting to get pissed at me because I tell them "I dont want to be tied down."

 

[Jay kay]

I recently approached an austrailian girl in the park and turns out she so easy to talk to, we somehow ended up talking about relationships and she asked me if i was seeing anyone. I told her i enjoy being single and she gave me a look like she completely disapproved of it. I am afterall 29 years old but i am in no hurry to find a girl i want to settle down with. Nothing wrong with been free to meet as little or as many women, for sex, friendship or for dating.

Some people think its selfish to be single most of your life, esp when your having sex with multiple women with no strings attached. I don't think thats been selfish, its a choice of whatever makes you happy in life.

So bottom lines is, who cares if women get pissed if you prefer to not to get into a relationship, the only way to find the right girl is to date alot of them, true?

 

[Captain]

It really depends what you call a relationship, too. The only time you should ever feel like you have to be monogamous is when you are married, or when you have told the woman that you are going to be exclusive.

You can still date multiple women, or be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with one and date others - so long as you are open about it and don't lie to cover it up. Relationships are about fun.

 

[DonGorgon]

relationships dont mean much except you are more obligated to spend money and care.. they dont guarantee more sex or loyalty

 

[KontrollerX]

Just do what our more practical female counterparts do.

Stay with your current chick until someone better comes along and then gradually when you've established the new girl is a secure branch and better than your current girl ditch her for the new one completing the branch swing.

Also never indicate to your current girl that you don't want to be tied down make it so for all that she knows you are happy with her.

That way she doesn't get the satisfaction of breaking up with you first nor does she get the ego boost that would go along with that.

Leave her hurting and she may just be prime pickings for you in the future should you come to want her back for any reason. :yes:

 

[kingy]

relationships can be fun too 90% of women are legitimately bi-sexual ;-)