Im always apprehensive to get into a relationship because I feel like I can do so much better, or something better can come a long and I dont want to be tied down, plus this DJ thing simply put is really F***ing fun. Anyone else feel this way? A few girls are starting to get pissed at me because I tell them "I dont want to be tied down."
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Afraid to get into a relationship?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I recently approached an austrailian girl in the park and turns out she so easy to talk to, we somehow ended up talking about relationships and she asked me if i was seeing anyone. I told her i enjoy being single and she gave me a look like she completely disapproved of it. I am afterall 29 years old but i am in no hurry to find a girl i want to settle down with. Nothing wrong with been free to meet as little or as many women, for sex, friendship or for dating.
Some people think its selfish to be single most of your life, esp when your having sex with multiple women with no strings attached. I don't think thats been selfish, its a choice of whatever makes you happy in life.
So bottom lines is, who cares if women get pissed if you prefer to not to get into a relationship, the only way to find the right girl is to date alot of them, true?
Some people think its selfish to be single most of your life, esp when your having sex with multiple women with no strings attached. I don't think thats been selfish, its a choice of whatever makes you happy in life.
So bottom lines is, who cares if women get pissed if you prefer to not to get into a relationship, the only way to find the right girl is to date alot of them, true?
It really depends what you call a relationship, too. The only time you should ever feel like you have to be monogamous is when you are married, or when you have told the woman that you are going to be exclusive.
You can still date multiple women, or be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with one and date others - so long as you are open about it and don't lie to cover it up. Relationships are about fun.
You can still date multiple women, or be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with one and date others - so long as you are open about it and don't lie to cover it up. Relationships are about fun.
DonGorgon
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relationships dont mean much except you are more obligated to spend money and care.. they dont guarantee more sex or loyalty
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Just do what our more practical female counterparts do.
Stay with your current chick until someone better comes along and then gradually when you've established the new girl is a secure branch and better than your current girl ditch her for the new one completing the branch swing.
Also never indicate to your current girl that you don't want to be tied down make it so for all that she knows you are happy with her.
That way she doesn't get the satisfaction of breaking up with you first nor does she get the ego boost that would go along with that.
Leave her hurting and she may just be prime pickings for you in the future should you come to want her back for any reason. :yes:
Stay with your current chick until someone better comes along and then gradually when you've established the new girl is a secure branch and better than your current girl ditch her for the new one completing the branch swing.
Also never indicate to your current girl that you don't want to be tied down make it so for all that she knows you are happy with her.
That way she doesn't get the satisfaction of breaking up with you first nor does she get the ego boost that would go along with that.
Leave her hurting and she may just be prime pickings for you in the future should you come to want her back for any reason. :yes:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
kingy
Senior Don Juan
relationships can be fun too 90% of women are legitimately bi-sexual ;-)